sometimes I wonder why people get into relationships with the first person that even gives them the slightest amount of attention and then I realise it’s probably because they don’t love themselves and rely on someone else’s love to make them happy which can be toxic tbh. relying on someone else to give you happiness is not only stressful for them, but it’s also just going to hurt you in the end and y’all need to realise that you’re only ever going to be happy if you actually love yourself and not use other people to give you that.
I am a person of few words and even fewer meaningful gestures.... but when I gift you with either you will find them so deeply concentrated, so full of emotional intensity that you will wonder how I managed to keep so much love hidden inside for so long.
A quote from Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind
"Too many guys think I'm a concept, or I complete them, or I'm gonna make them alive. But I'm just a fucked up girl who's lookin' for my own peace of mind; don't assign me yours." 「男っていつも私のことを概念かなんかだと思ってる。私が彼らを完全にするだとか、彼らを生き返らせるパワーがあるだとか。でもね、私は単に自分の心の平安を探し求めてるイカれた女なの。それだけ。だからあなたも私にあなたの価値観を押し付けないでね」