Please understand this:
Sometimes holding on does more damage than letting go.
It’s painful to admit that you’ve been lying to yourself.
It hurts to admit that you’ve been accepting toxic behavior and, therefore, are partly to blame for the suffering you’ve endured.
It hurts to come to terms with the fact you set the expectations they didn’t meet;
that you offered forgiveness when there was no apology;
that you didn’t speak up;
that you kept giving without receiving in return.
It hurts to realize that you don’t have what it takes to be the “hero” you thought you could be.
It hurts to admit that you can’t change someone who doesn’t believe they have a problem.
Above all, it’s painful to let go when you’ve invested so much.
Like an intern working overtime for a position that was never available in the first place, it’s devastating to realize you’ve been investing time, energy, and love into something that never actually existed.
It hurts to know you gave everything you had to someone who gave nothing in return.
It hurts to know that you tried your best and it still wasn’t enough.
It hurts to realize that your best will never be enough.
It hurts to admit that you had choices and you chose wrong-
I get it; it HURTS!
But the great thing about LIFE is that as long as you’re STILL breathing, you have the opportunity to make better decisions and produce better outcomes!
You don’t HAVE to tolerate hurt, pain, abuse, devastation.
Make peace, and let go.
You deserve better.
First week of shooting I told this lovely lady she would be my #wcw today! She said, “Your words not mine, we’ll see...” 😆 @thedeewallace has been such a joy to work with! I’ve been entertained by her talent & humor, and blessed by her energy and wisdom! Cheers Dee! ❤️
“The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides.” Audrey Hepburn #WCW .
Hair Styling: @whoisamandab .
➖🍉Life is Like Eating a Watermelon. You Know Youre Going to get Some Seeds, Just Spit them Out & Take Another Bite🍉➖ 🌴Obstacles are part of growing, believe in yourself & don’t let anything stand in your way. The Day you Plant the Seed is Not the Day you Eat the Fruit. Patience isn’t simply your ability to wait its also about how you behave while you wait, life may test you before itll bless you. ⚠️Don’t let the attitude of certain people change the person that you are, or drag you down. Use the strength & goodness inside of you to rise above it all. When people throw you stones, its bc they see the harvest in you. Don’t lower yourself by throwing back stones, instead throw them your fruits so the seeds of yourself may inspire them to change their ways, Really, at the end of the day, Have you ever met a hater doing better than you? 🙌🏽This is what you do… Don’t let the world make you bitter. Things will happen that hurt us, & there are certainly moments where we fall. Through it stay kind, its never ok do to wrong by people even if you were treated wrongly. Were human, we break, we make mistakes, but you cant allow sadness of any kind to negatively affect your life. Wake up & do what you feel is right. Its ok to feel weak, its often the things that bring out our weak side that make us stronger in the long run. Its about taking whatever life throws at you & learning from it. Its up to you to start making healthy choices, not just for your body but for your mind as well. Always seek out the seed of triumph in every adversity. 🔥some will test you, use you, & teach you, but most importantly some will bring out the best in you. Learn to see & accept the differences between people & carry on with your life accordingly. 💋Youre One in a Melon & There is nothing more beautiful than someone who makes life beautiful for others. 💙 @believesupplements@lomerphotography ▪️ #weightlifting#goals#healthy#gym#motivation#beach#muscle#shredded#wcw#watermelon#workout#fitness#fitspo#bodybuilding#fitnessmodel#girlswholift#fitgirl#bootyfordays#transformation#fitspiration#travel#igfit#physique#fitfam#bikini#nopainnogain#squats#flex#noexcuses
Late #wcw post to the ladies of @crusadeofcurves totally forgot to post this yesterday but had awesome time with these beautiful women last year at the casting
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