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  • There is no denying that women in our society face physical , mental and emotional abuse on daily base! 
And in most of the cases actual victim of facing such extra ordinary behaviour gets alienated and society tries to protect the perpetrator! people consider only violence and hitting physically  an "Abuse"  although being mentally and emotionally abuse rate is alot high but its just get neglected as people aren't able to differentiate ! They just can't figure it out that they are getting abused. Most of the men wants to be dominant and to make her women feel inferior they do such kinds of abuse just to avoid this label of (Joru ka ghulaam) .ps: I am not the one who says all men are same ! 
Society wants their women to keep their domestic problems to their self and keep it as private as they can and try to solve it alone ! This is how society and the perpetrator isolates the women and it lead them to take this decision of suicide ! 
Compromise , Compromise , Compromise ! Try your best to correct your partner but there's always a limit don't let it cross ! Bounce back and face it . Its not only about women , Men gets emotionally and mentally abuse too by their family and spouse! I request you all if you are in any relationship and you and your partner aren't happy first try to figure out maybe its you who is  making it all toxic !
And yes  Stop being victim be a lioness get up and show them that you aren't weak ! You can do it! 
PC: @ali_siddiqui_photography 
#domesticviolenceawareness  #abusiverelationshipsurvivor
  • There is no denying that women in our society face physical , mental and emotional abuse on daily base!
    And in most of the cases actual victim of facing such extra ordinary behaviour gets alienated and society tries to protect the perpetrator! people consider only violence and hitting physically an "Abuse" although being mentally and emotionally abuse rate is alot high but its just get neglected as people aren't able to differentiate ! They just can't figure it out that they are getting abused. Most of the men wants to be dominant and to make her women feel inferior they do such kinds of abuse just to avoid this label of (Joru ka ghulaam) .ps: I am not the one who says all men are same !
    Society wants their women to keep their domestic problems to their self and keep it as private as they can and try to solve it alone ! This is how society and the perpetrator isolates the women and it lead them to take this decision of suicide !
    Compromise , Compromise , Compromise ! Try your best to correct your partner but there's always a limit don't let it cross ! Bounce back and face it . Its not only about women , Men gets emotionally and mentally abuse too by their family and spouse! I request you all if you are in any relationship and you and your partner aren't happy first try to figure out maybe its you who is making it all toxic !
    And yes Stop being victim be a lioness get up and show them that you aren't weak ! You can do it!
    PC: @ali_siddiqui_photography
    #domesticviolenceawareness #abusiverelationshipsurvivor
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  • 348 15 19 August, 2018
  • When I was 18, I got involved in an extremely abusive relationship. It didn’t begin that way, but escalated to something horrible over the course of 4 years.⁣
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This person physically, sexually, verbally, and psychologically abused me. I lost all of my friends and I hardly spoke to my family, so the only “friend” I had was my pet named Emily. I loved Emily— which is why one day I came home to find her crushed body in a shoe box in the freezer. I will never forget how happy my parter was when when I was told she was dead. I remember how it felt to look at the corpse of the only friend I had. I knew if I tried to leave, my fate might be similar to Emily’s. So I stayed for 2 more years, afraid of what the consequences would be if I left. Towards the end, my partner did try to kill me, but clearly didn’t succeed. It was the night before they left for military training. I never went to the police. I was too scared. So I locked myself in my room and leaned against the door until the early morning when they finally left. ⁣I honestly didn’t know if I would ever see the sunrise again because I wasn’t sure if they would make a second attempt before they left. ⁣
Leaving an abusive relationship is the most difficult thing in the world to do, because no matter how strong you think you are, they break you. They break you in ways you never thought were possible and by the time they are done, you are only the shattered remnants of who you were. ⁣
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I stand in front of you today as a mosaic. I took my broken pieces and created something beautiful out of it. ⁣
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If you are in an abusive relationship, I want you to know that I get it. It’s scary. They break you and make you think no one but them will love the broken person you have become. These are all lies and no matter how difficult it is, I’m encouraging you to leave. I’ve been where you are. I know how it feels and I know how complicated it can get. But you have the strength within you to escape. ⁣
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⁣To everyone else here, let’s leave encouraging comments below this picture to any victim who might be reading this. Let’s unite as a community and perhaps this will be the final step to help give them the strength to leave. ⁣
  • When I was 18, I got involved in an extremely abusive relationship. It didn’t begin that way, but escalated to something horrible over the course of 4 years.⁣

    This person physically, sexually, verbally, and psychologically abused me. I lost all of my friends and I hardly spoke to my family, so the only “friend” I had was my pet named Emily. I loved Emily— which is why one day I came home to find her crushed body in a shoe box in the freezer. I will never forget how happy my parter was when when I was told she was dead. I remember how it felt to look at the corpse of the only friend I had. I knew if I tried to leave, my fate might be similar to Emily’s. So I stayed for 2 more years, afraid of what the consequences would be if I left. Towards the end, my partner did try to kill me, but clearly didn’t succeed. It was the night before they left for military training. I never went to the police. I was too scared. So I locked myself in my room and leaned against the door until the early morning when they finally left. ⁣I honestly didn’t know if I would ever see the sunrise again because I wasn’t sure if they would make a second attempt before they left. ⁣
    Leaving an abusive relationship is the most difficult thing in the world to do, because no matter how strong you think you are, they break you. They break you in ways you never thought were possible and by the time they are done, you are only the shattered remnants of who you were. ⁣

    I stand in front of you today as a mosaic. I took my broken pieces and created something beautiful out of it. ⁣

    If you are in an abusive relationship, I want you to know that I get it. It’s scary. They break you and make you think no one but them will love the broken person you have become. These are all lies and no matter how difficult it is, I’m encouraging you to leave. I’ve been where you are. I know how it feels and I know how complicated it can get. But you have the strength within you to escape. ⁣

    ⁣To everyone else here, let’s leave encouraging comments below this picture to any victim who might be reading this. Let’s unite as a community and perhaps this will be the final step to help give them the strength to leave. ⁣
  • 429 44 6 November, 2019

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  • 🥀 My painting for today didn’t go the way I wanted it to so this is a #tbt (2016) to a painting about my first love that was emotionally abusive. This is also to anyone that is or was going through a similar situation, know that you are not alone and that things get better with time ❤️ please read my poem that I wrote for this painting 👇
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Our rose, 
Blossomed under shooting stars, too delicate for our scars.
Danced on beaches and hotel rooms, too fragile for your poisonous fumes.
Grew from the wild, unplanned, now lay dead in my cold hand.
  • 🥀 My painting for today didn’t go the way I wanted it to so this is a #tbt (2016) to a painting about my first love that was emotionally abusive. This is also to anyone that is or was going through a similar situation, know that you are not alone and that things get better with time ❤️ please read my poem that I wrote for this painting 👇
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    Our rose,
    Blossomed under shooting stars, too delicate for our scars.
    Danced on beaches and hotel rooms, too fragile for your poisonous fumes.
    Grew from the wild, unplanned, now lay dead in my cold hand.
  • 6 2 11 February, 2020
  • Comfort zones don’t keep you safe, they keep you small💯 #FlashBackFriday To be completely honest I was ONLY going to share this flashback comparison with those who are close to me...😬 Which I then realized wouldn’t be fair to those that aren’t, but have been following my fitness journey through social media.👀 It’s never easy for me to post pictures like this... 🤷🏼‍♀️ We all START somewhere, so don’t give up just yet. #ProgressIsStillProgress Judge me if you want, but honestly I could careless about your opinions. Before joining IWG I was lost, depressed, stressed and I didn’t know a thing about being healthy or care to be. I didn’t understand that the people I surrounded myself with effected my every day life. Unfortunately I allowed a toxic relationship to tear me apart, but I’m #ForeverThankful I never let it destroy me completely. I’m #Grateful to have found a company where I can share my self love ➕ fitness journey, while sharing our life-changing products & helping people along the way. What I’ve learned about life is for every inch of sadness lies a foot of happiness. I’ve learned that the simplest of times brings the grandest pleasures. That the hardest goodbyes lead to some of the best hellos. I’ve come to realize that the craziest chances we take lead us to unexpected discovers that change our life immensely. If only people understood how important it is to be consistent. Everything that has value in life is a product of consistency. Success, Health, Wealth, Fitness, Friendships, Relationships and all other #Aspirations are about staying consistent‼️ Consistency is 10x more important than perfection. #StayConsistent #DontGiveUp #YouCanDoThisWithMe #FitnessJourney #SelfLoveJourney #LoveYourselfFirst #AbusiveRelationshipSurvivor #StrugglesDontDefineYou #YouAreNOTAlone #MyCalvins
  • Comfort zones don’t keep you safe, they keep you small💯 #FlashBackFriday To be completely honest I was ONLY going to share this flashback comparison with those who are close to me...😬 Which I then realized wouldn’t be fair to those that aren’t, but have been following my fitness journey through social media.👀 It’s never easy for me to post pictures like this... 🤷🏼‍♀️ We all START somewhere, so don’t give up just yet. #ProgressIsStillProgress Judge me if you want, but honestly I could careless about your opinions. Before joining IWG I was lost, depressed, stressed and I didn’t know a thing about being healthy or care to be. I didn’t understand that the people I surrounded myself with effected my every day life. Unfortunately I allowed a toxic relationship to tear me apart, but I’m #ForeverThankful I never let it destroy me completely. I’m #Grateful to have found a company where I can share my self love ➕ fitness journey, while sharing our life-changing products & helping people along the way. What I’ve learned about life is for every inch of sadness lies a foot of happiness. I’ve learned that the simplest of times brings the grandest pleasures. That the hardest goodbyes lead to some of the best hellos. I’ve come to realize that the craziest chances we take lead us to unexpected discovers that change our life immensely. If only people understood how important it is to be consistent. Everything that has value in life is a product of consistency. Success, Health, Wealth, Fitness, Friendships, Relationships and all other #Aspirations are about staying consistent‼️ Consistency is 10x more important than perfection. #StayConsistent #DontGiveUp #YouCanDoThisWithMe #FitnessJourney #SelfLoveJourney #LoveYourselfFirst #AbusiveRelationshipSurvivor #StrugglesDontDefineYou #YouAreNOTAlone #MyCalvins
  • 156 7 7 February, 2020
  • September 2018/ January 2020,
I don’t think you realize how much someone can destroy you in a time period. Looks can be deceiving, though actions speak louder than words. Yet, I still was blinded through the charm and lies, and neglected gut feelings and any proof you could have possibly given me to prove to me he was cheating. 
His addictions grew stronger, and I became weaker. 
Eventually I let him take full control of my emotions and allowed the rollercoaster to begin. 
I cry more now than I ever have in my life.
I’m still dumbfounded and I beg him to change. I think that this time WILL be different because I WILL give him another chance, to only be asking the same questions, WHY will I never be good enough FOR HIM. 
Never, I am good enough; good enough for myself. 
I find myself insecure about things I’ve never worried about, random anxiety attacks of when he’ll do it again, piercing through my heart and digging right into my soul. 
Over time I begin to forget who I am. 
I am reminded though. 
I am reminded through my children that I am their mother. That, I am better, strong and WORTH the world to them. 
I am reminded that I am strong because I raise 2 beautiful little girls by myself, and at my weakest moments, it’s them who are by my side, reminding me that I am stronger than the tears he brings.

The journey will continue, and I will continue to grow. I am thankful for the supports I have today and the supports who’ve been rooting me on since day 1. 
#abusiverelationshipsurvivor #strongertogether #strongerthanyesterday #mentalhealth #successmindset
  • September 2018/ January 2020,
    I don’t think you realize how much someone can destroy you in a time period. Looks can be deceiving, though actions speak louder than words. Yet, I still was blinded through the charm and lies, and neglected gut feelings and any proof you could have possibly given me to prove to me he was cheating.
    His addictions grew stronger, and I became weaker.
    Eventually I let him take full control of my emotions and allowed the rollercoaster to begin.
    I cry more now than I ever have in my life.
    I’m still dumbfounded and I beg him to change. I think that this time WILL be different because I WILL give him another chance, to only be asking the same questions, WHY will I never be good enough FOR HIM.
    Never, I am good enough; good enough for myself.
    I find myself insecure about things I’ve never worried about, random anxiety attacks of when he’ll do it again, piercing through my heart and digging right into my soul.
    Over time I begin to forget who I am.
    I am reminded though.
    I am reminded through my children that I am their mother. That, I am better, strong and WORTH the world to them.
    I am reminded that I am strong because I raise 2 beautiful little girls by myself, and at my weakest moments, it’s them who are by my side, reminding me that I am stronger than the tears he brings.

    The journey will continue, and I will continue to grow. I am thankful for the supports I have today and the supports who’ve been rooting me on since day 1.
    #abusiverelationshipsurvivor #strongertogether #strongerthanyesterday #mentalhealth #successmindset
  • 54 5 24 January, 2020
  • Ending the narcissistic relationship is mind-bending. Not all breakups are the same. When you break up with your high school sweetheart, that sucks but at least you know you are breaking up with your high school sweetheart. When you break up with a narcissist, you are ending a relationship that never really existed. Well, not the way you think it did anyway. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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As you heal from ending the narcissistic relationship, you will face MANY bumps in the road. You will wonder if you are crazy and go through ups and downs sometimes many times throughout the day. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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  • Ending the narcissistic relationship is mind-bending. Not all breakups are the same. When you break up with your high school sweetheart, that sucks but at least you know you are breaking up with your high school sweetheart. When you break up with a narcissist, you are ending a relationship that never really existed. Well, not the way you think it did anyway. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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    As you heal from ending the narcissistic relationship, you will face MANY bumps in the road. You will wonder if you are crazy and go through ups and downs sometimes many times throughout the day. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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    Visit the link in my story for more info. http://bit.ly/365V5nc_is
  • 225 11 18 January, 2020
  • Some more vent art , this one wasn’t made during a bad headspace moment though so it looks decent enough this time around lol . Also don’t worry , that’s not the kind of cuts you think , it’s more like a vase breaking but my damn soul . I was inspired and two of the song titles come from Lingua Ignota’s album Caligula , you should check it out . Her music is INTENSE but man it’s amazing and so relatable as an abuse survivor . I’m sorry I bring it up a lot , but as someone who now strives to help people escape them , I gotta show what my mind goes thru sometimes with art . #ventart #caligula #darkart #bloodyart #goreart #abusiverelationshipsurvivor #digitalartist #instagramartist #growingartist #youtubeartist
  • Some more vent art , this one wasn’t made during a bad headspace moment though so it looks decent enough this time around lol . Also don’t worry , that’s not the kind of cuts you think , it’s more like a vase breaking but my damn soul . I was inspired and two of the song titles come from Lingua Ignota’s album Caligula , you should check it out . Her music is INTENSE but man it’s amazing and so relatable as an abuse survivor . I’m sorry I bring it up a lot , but as someone who now strives to help people escape them , I gotta show what my mind goes thru sometimes with art . #ventart #caligula #darkart #bloodyart #goreart #abusiverelationshipsurvivor #digitalartist #instagramartist #growingartist #youtubeartist
  • 49 19 6 January, 2020
  • I used to scoff at the idea that I was dangerous. What a silly thing to say. And then sometimes worry zings through my mind and I think, why would anyone say that? But I know it.  I'm a danger. A danger to blowing your cover.

I'm the sleep paralysis demon, sitting in the corner of your dreamt up life illusion 
And when you see me there you'll freeze, because you're out of excuses 
Nobody else seems to see me there 
And you feel alone, stuttering in your stewed darkness

I'm the cough after the high 
And the smudge on your glasses
And the burnt pea at the bottom of the pan

The bitter reminder of a bed and a decision 
That I did not make 
But my haunt 
Is far more powerful 
Than your mistake
  • I used to scoff at the idea that I was dangerous. What a silly thing to say. And then sometimes worry zings through my mind and I think, why would anyone say that? But I know it. I'm a danger. A danger to blowing your cover.

    I'm the sleep paralysis demon, sitting in the corner of your dreamt up life illusion
    And when you see me there you'll freeze, because you're out of excuses
    Nobody else seems to see me there
    And you feel alone, stuttering in your stewed darkness

    I'm the cough after the high
    And the smudge on your glasses
    And the burnt pea at the bottom of the pan

    The bitter reminder of a bed and a decision
    That I did not make
    But my haunt
    Is far more powerful
    Than your mistake
  • 2 3 4 January, 2020
  • Support and bring Awareness to the world!
  • Support and bring Awareness to the world!
  • 9 1 31 December, 2019