Reflecting on 25 like...🤩
Top lessons I learned this year. 👇🏽
1️⃣ Any dream that’s been placed in your heart is not there by accident. If you constantly dream of more that means you’re worthy of it.
2️⃣ Self care is not selfish. It is absolutely necessary to do in order to have a clear mindset and headspace. When I don’t take care of myself, everything else in my life suffers.
3️⃣ There is nothing that a good dance party cannot cure.
4️⃣ I am strong, beautiful, capable, resilient, and I can achieve every single goal I’ve set for myself.
5️⃣ Nothing about me is a mistake. I’m exactly how God intended for me to be.
The first part of my 20s has flown by and ya girl is ready to see what the next part has in store.
It’s been real being a quarter of a century. ✌🏽
Guess who’s turning 29 in 2 months!! This girl right here. Guess who doesn’t have kids, is not married, made a huge decision in her life and is okay with all of this!!!! This girl right here!! ♥️ The older I get the more I get asked or commented on my decisions - “When are you going to have kids” - “When are you going to settle down and get married” - “You are getting older and it’s going to be dangerous to have children in your 30s” - “Instead of focusing on your body, you should focus on settling down” -
To my friends who are almost 30 living their lives and feeling shitty for these comments or questions...please stop listening to them. You will find your way, those things will come if it’s meant to happen. Do not force anything because society has taught you that by a specific age you need to be married with kids and please live on the dangerous side, take risk in your life to make you happy. Don’t stop focusing on your careers or your health. You matter. As a women, do I know the risks I’m taking...absolutely but am I going to just pop a kid out because I’m going to “expire”......absolutely not. -
I’m finally to a point where I’m doing what makes me happy and right now my healing from my past and learning to be okay with being alone is more important. Does that mean I won’t keep my intuition and my emotions on...no I will always trust my gut and go with what my intuition leads me too, so if the right person comes along I can feel if it’s right. Once you let the universe do its thang and take over. You start to realize life will happen when it should, so please still love and be vulnerable and allow people into your life but also don’t ever feel forced into getting married or having children because of your age. You are beautiful and you are allowed to wait until the moment happens for you. 😘 #almostmybirthday#turning29#trusttheuniverse