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【step9】
最近開始了新的工作,面對忙碌的人生,我們好像什麼都要負責。
第一次打廠商的電話,第一次電郵文鄒鄒的書信往來,第一次很有禮貌地和老闆請示批閱,第一次寫報價核銷單,第一次打工作甘特圖,第一次自己開店,第一次拆招牌,第一次拍簡單的商攝,第一次和同事吵架,第一次生活被工作填滿。

來聊聊人際相處這件事。
有一個答案是肯定的—我們必須接受與自己同質性有不同程度差異的人,諸如正在閱讀的你和我,每天、每件事、每個人;與此同時我們也理應拿出對應的同理或包容去與對方相處,但即便你有再大的心去接納不同,還是會因為細枝末節又或各種不明的緣由,最後導向爭吵一途,我是一個很贊成吵架或爭執的人,我將吵架理解成帶有鮮明色彩和攻擊性的「溝通」,我們透過高昂的氣焰更明白主觀地了解對方,這其實是更直接更清楚的訊息,尤其是在華人講求禮儀、不直接的社會風氣下,換個角度,這樣的途徑其實是更加有效、快速的。但今天想告訴你的並不是吵架的好處,而是選擇何時必須爭吵,也就是我們真的有必要和一個人溝通得這麼深入?要將自己大把的青春浪費在教訓一個人身上?

我們都知道「江山易改,本性難移」,我們即使以多苦口婆心的態度去說服對方、望他能有所改變,還真的不如給他一次破碗破摔,給他死一次的經驗,他就明白自己的盲區到底在哪,當然這還是跟悟性跟個性有很大的關聯。我們其實不難見自己看不慣的事,但凡你心裡有一塊正義感需要被填滿,可能一句阻止或勸說的話就出去了,但一直和各種人周旋在習慣或個性上是相當耗神的,所謂秀才遇到兵有理說不清,牛牽到台北還是巴黎,那種驚人的精神耗損真的不是在和你開玩笑。

我們理應自己決定是否該付出這筆花銷,並不是對方真的是個無理取鬧的笨兵,而是有些根深蒂固的習慣也不在一朝一夕,又或是一個複雜的性格怎麼要能三言兩語擺平?對於相互為一個獨立的個體,我也認為應該給予禮貌和尊重,而非你看不慣就要他改變自己,也非那套社會說的「既然世界不變,我們就改變自己」,別騙了那只是優化世界體系的教訓;他也並非你的多年好友、家中親人,為何你要為他掏心掏肺即便在情緒化的當下?

溝通可以為你解決差異和理解,
但對於加購的情感綁架可以敬謝不敏。

#angry#knowledge
#越寫越多#頗有感觸
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    【step9】
    最近開始了新的工作,面對忙碌的人生,我們好像什麼都要負責。
    第一次打廠商的電話,第一次電郵文鄒鄒的書信往來,第一次很有禮貌地和老闆請示批閱,第一次寫報價核銷單,第一次打工作甘特圖,第一次自己開店,第一次拆招牌,第一次拍簡單的商攝,第一次和同事吵架,第一次生活被工作填滿。

    來聊聊人際相處這件事。
    有一個答案是肯定的—我們必須接受與自己同質性有不同程度差異的人,諸如正在閱讀的你和我,每天、每件事、每個人;與此同時我們也理應拿出對應的同理或包容去與對方相處,但即便你有再大的心去接納不同,還是會因為細枝末節又或各種不明的緣由,最後導向爭吵一途,我是一個很贊成吵架或爭執的人,我將吵架理解成帶有鮮明色彩和攻擊性的「溝通」,我們透過高昂的氣焰更明白主觀地了解對方,這其實是更直接更清楚的訊息,尤其是在華人講求禮儀、不直接的社會風氣下,換個角度,這樣的途徑其實是更加有效、快速的。但今天想告訴你的並不是吵架的好處,而是選擇何時必須爭吵,也就是我們真的有必要和一個人溝通得這麼深入?要將自己大把的青春浪費在教訓一個人身上?

    我們都知道「江山易改,本性難移」,我們即使以多苦口婆心的態度去說服對方、望他能有所改變,還真的不如給他一次破碗破摔,給他死一次的經驗,他就明白自己的盲區到底在哪,當然這還是跟悟性跟個性有很大的關聯。我們其實不難見自己看不慣的事,但凡你心裡有一塊正義感需要被填滿,可能一句阻止或勸說的話就出去了,但一直和各種人周旋在習慣或個性上是相當耗神的,所謂秀才遇到兵有理說不清,牛牽到台北還是巴黎,那種驚人的精神耗損真的不是在和你開玩笑。

    我們理應自己決定是否該付出這筆花銷,並不是對方真的是個無理取鬧的笨兵,而是有些根深蒂固的習慣也不在一朝一夕,又或是一個複雜的性格怎麼要能三言兩語擺平?對於相互為一個獨立的個體,我也認為應該給予禮貌和尊重,而非你看不慣就要他改變自己,也非那套社會說的「既然世界不變,我們就改變自己」,別騙了那只是優化世界體系的教訓;他也並非你的多年好友、家中親人,為何你要為他掏心掏肺即便在情緒化的當下?

    溝通可以為你解決差異和理解,
    但對於加購的情感綁架可以敬謝不敏。

    #angry #knowledge
    #越寫越多 #頗有感觸
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  • This was taken like 1.5 months ago 😬 anyway 
Lilly: "I'm so pissed off with my neighbour. My family have all come around which doesn't happen very often and then he, the c**t that he is has to play the cringiest music ever! My mum and Watson had to try and calm me down but then he started shouting at my bf and they ended up getting into a fight which obviously ended up with my bf winning. I know this is very last minute but i've got a gig tomorrow where i will be paid $50,000 for doing it! I'm happy about the amount of money that i will recieve very soon from it but i'm just really scared of messing up! Wish me luck guys!✌ From Lilly xxxx. #sims #sims4 #anxious #nocc #famous #money #angry #inthecity #singer
  • This was taken like 1.5 months ago 😬 anyway
    Lilly: "I'm so pissed off with my neighbour. My family have all come around which doesn't happen very often and then he, the c**t that he is has to play the cringiest music ever! My mum and Watson had to try and calm me down but then he started shouting at my bf and they ended up getting into a fight which obviously ended up with my bf winning. I know this is very last minute but i've got a gig tomorrow where i will be paid $50,000 for doing it! I'm happy about the amount of money that i will recieve very soon from it but i'm just really scared of messing up! Wish me luck guys!✌ From Lilly xxxx. #sims #sims4 #anxious #nocc #famous #money #angry #inthecity #singer
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  • #angry man# broken heart 💔💔
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  • Currently going through the “must have mom or I will burn this place DOWN” phase... send help. 😅 #BabyH
  • Currently going through the “must have mom or I will burn this place DOWN” phase... send help. 😅 #BabyH
  • 1 1 1 hour ago
  • He is right you know! You have to be #angry to change the uncomfortable situations in your life. Don't write the IELTS 10 times and think the British council is being bias. Don't give up on your dreams to relocate to Canada or wherever... Be #angry and take charge! That's the only way you have a hold on your destiny! If you will like to take the IELTS and you need a tutor or want to join our paid writing class or have any questions regarding Immigration to Canada or Australia or you have issues with your current Application or find it difficult getting the status of an application to Canada, hit us up on a dm or call 08099160333 and we will stop at nothing to give you the peace of mind you deserve!🤩
  • He is right you know! You have to be #angry to change the uncomfortable situations in your life. Don't write the IELTS 10 times and think the British council is being bias. Don't give up on your dreams to relocate to Canada or wherever... Be #angry and take charge! That's the only way you have a hold on your destiny! If you will like to take the IELTS and you need a tutor or want to join our paid writing class or have any questions regarding Immigration to Canada or Australia or you have issues with your current Application or find it difficult getting the status of an application to Canada, hit us up on a dm or call 08099160333 and we will stop at nothing to give you the peace of mind you deserve!🤩
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