@therock kızıyla mezuniyette çektirdiği bir fotoğrafı paylaşmış ikinci foto da bu😄Kızına sarılıp öpmek isterken gelen tepki fotosu😊Çok tipik.. Orada bir sürü insanın önünde babasının/annesinin öpmesinden hoşlanmaz ergen. Artık büyümüştür, çocuk değildir bunu da kanıtlaması gerekir😉Çocuklar bazen 8-9 yaşlarından itibaren reddederler ebeveynin sarılmasını, öpmesini.. Hele başkalarının görmesi(özellikle arkadaşlarının) çok ayıptır,rezil olur🤦🏻♀️Artık çocuk değildir; erkek çocukları için durum daha vahim.. Anne/baba geliyor herkesin içinde öpmeye kalkıyor😩”Nasıl bir erkeğim ben?” diye düşünür içinden ve anında tepkisini gösterir. Bu tepkiler gerçek midir peki🤔Her çocuğun içinde fiziksel temas isteği vardır ama büyümekle beraber sanki sarılmak öpmek sadece çocuklar içindir onlara göre.. Siz pes etmeyin ama çok da ısrarcı olmayın özellikle başkalarının yanında. Öptürmezse saçına, sırtına,koluna dokunun. Yarım sarılın, kafasından öpün. Bir şekilde ten temasını kesmeyin. Bu arada mutlaka gözünün içine bakıp “Seni seviyorum” deyin. Bu önemli! Hala ihtiyaçları var❤️İyi hafta sonları🙋🎈 #ergenlik#ebeveynlik#beingateen#parenting#parentingistough#aybenertemyazdı
Today's topic is mother's, plenty of people agree that everyone needs a mother, (myself included) but not everyone agrees on how mother's should treat their daughters. If my jeans are too tight I have to change, if my skirt is a few inches above my knees I have to change, if my shirt is just a little bit to low (even though I'm fully covered) I have to change, and I'm not allowed to wear heels to tall sometimes I can see why she wants me to change my shirt sometimes it's a bit low but when she gives me "the look" my self confidence goes down because before her opinion I thought I looked nice. All my friends thought I looked nice. Nothing was showing, but my mother still had a problem with it. At this point it just sounds like a stupid teen age girl ranting about how my mother sucks. But bare with me. When mother's give their daughters "the look" it makes them feel like there is a problem with them like they should be ashamed of themselves. I'm not saying go run around half naked but mother's and father's shouldn't be so harsh. I bet parents don't realize that they're kids spent hours at 3 am trying clothes on to help cope with all their feels, and even woke up a bit earlier to get ready so they can look nice even though, they didn't sleep well, and that looking nice feeling confident is also a way to cope. It sounds stupid and this isn't a pass for everything but don't be so up tight about a few inches. Nobody cares a guy isn't going to instantly get ideas the moment he sees 2 more inches of a girls knee. Although not having to change feeling confident will effect your kids mental health. .
To My Younger Self.... I am sorry you went through that.
I am sorry that you made choices that hurt you.
I am sorry that you believed that you were unworthy.
I want you to know that you made the choices that you did with the feelings & limited experience that you had at the time. You did your best with what you knew. Don’t worry I am taking over now, a new chapter has begun. I promise you that I will look after us, we’re in this together & I love you.
My life at 16 was about numbing the pain on the inside with alcohol, drugs, & cutting because of all the horrible shit I went through on the outside.
My life at 25 is about the joy and happiness I feel with my husband & my son, about the family and friends I have that are R E A L and T R U E to me and the H E A L T H Y lifestyle I am living N O W. I still to this day suffer from depression and anxiety, and after becoming a mom, I was diagnosed with PTSD. So yes I still struggle but I have better & healthier ways of coping with my pain now. I show people the realest most vulnerable sides of me because I want them to understand that they aren’t alone if they are feeling this way too. “Pain shapes a woman into a warrior.”
613 October, 2019
Teen at Work // What a gorgeous Melbourne day but getting this one out of the house is done kind of miracle that I worked and then getting him to wash the car !! Well actually he willingly did this 😳
I think being a teen in the world today is so difficult. With social media giving endless profiles of perfect people living the perfect life 🕸 where how you look means so much more than who you are 🕸 where what you achieve matters more than the journey it took to get there!! 🌀
My teen class is designed for 12yrs -18yr olds, to help work with stress, anxiety, fitting in.....it offers a SPACE for relaxation and stepping out of the mind state. A place where you don’t have to be anyone other than you, a place of zero competition, a place of exploration....of what it means to be you. 🌀
It can also be used as a Duke of Edinburgh activity. Come and join me at Berkhamsted Town Hall 6:15pm-7:15pm on Tuesdays (term times) 🌀