From my book: WAYS TO STOP KILLING YOUR SOUL ✨ available for purchase ✨LINK IN BIO 👉 Ways to stop killing your soul #29 • so many of us had narrow images of "success" imposed upon us and we adopted them to frame our lives with, forgetting that we can make our own visions and sense of time •• we believe that a successful life must include xyz on a list and they must be achieved by specific ages, or else we will be labeled failures ••• we rush through our checklist, rarely stopping to appreciate the process, let alone to reflect on whether we even want what's on the checklist or how the checklist and all the expectation and demands placed on us from very early on have damaged us •• because we don't reach within ourselves to understand our vision of success, we often find ourselves unfulfilled, even if we are able to check-off our list •• true success can look a million different ways because success is living as your true self and becoming all the things that your soul has the potential to -- it's living life wth respect for all the magic and possibilities you can bring out from within #tips#stop#advice#selfhelp#selflove#selfcare#freeyourself#success#reflect#vision#slowdown#enjoy#confusion#dontrush#doyou#livefully#mylife
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It’s okay to not understand everything completely as long as you know, you are doing what you need. 🌸
Ways to stop killing your soul #28 • Many of us were raised within co-dependent love, within "I need you," and learned that love is synonymous with need ••• it is not • need is from a place of lacking and taking, love is from a place of fullness and giving ••• many of us were taught that to love someone is to need them and be needed by them, to not be able to live without them, that you are one with another or intertwined, that to not need someone is to not love them, is a betrayal •• this is not love, this is co-dependence -- the feeling that you must take from or be needed by another in order to give love or be loved •• it is dysfunctional and it creates a lack of boundaries and detracts from a full sense of self • it leads to believing that the actions and feelings of another person define you and to an unhealthy dependence on the other to need you • to love someone is to take them as they are, to support them in ways that maintain who you are, and to encourage them to be their best self, their own #tips#stop#advice#selfhelp#selflove#selfcare#freeyourself#love#need#feelings#codependent#codependency#confusion#whatislove#support#youareyou#iamme#boundaries#mylife 👉From my book: WAYS TO STOP KILLING YOUR SOUL ✨ available for purchase ✨LINK IN BIO
If you don’t like spoilers please stop reading now! This will not be a traditional review. Everyone has pretty much read this book so I’m going to list a few of my observations to begin a dialogue. .
خرجتينى بره حياتك من غير اى مبررات محولتيش حتى تفهمينى. ليه فجأه بقيت قليل اوى بنسبالك؟!
You decided that we're done, without any excuses. You didn't even try to explain. Why did I suddenly become invaluable to you?! 𝐒𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐋𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫: 𝐋𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐅𝐨𝐮𝐫 "𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐘 𝐄𝐗-𝐁𝐄𝐒𝐓 𝐅𝐑𝐈𝐄𝐍𝐃 𝐖𝐇𝐎 𝐋𝐈𝐄𝐃"
To read teaching in its entirety, link in bio... #prophetic#propheticteaching#entangled#confusion#brokenhearts#healing#ButGod God has been doing a work in the hearts of His people for the last four months. We have been in a cleansing process. He has been untangling those things that have entangled our hearts. Some things we didn’t even know were there. God tells us to be careful of the words we speak. Proverbs 12:13 tells us that the wicked are ensnared by the words they speak, but the righteous will escape such trouble. Our words are binding and there are times we have said things that have caused us to be ensnared. There are also times when other people’s words have ensnared us.
Ensnare- tangle, entangle, confuse, incriminate, lay a trap for
BUT THE RIGHTEOUS ESCAPE...
Follow link in bio for more about God’s plan of escape!
Some parts of myself I really do not understand, at all. There is no logic behind some thought patterns and time after time I find myself trying to figure them out, analyzing, fixing, fighting. And it always leads to more confusion, instead of the solution I am craving for. To finally understand why these thoughts are presenting themselves, as if this would free me from this confusion once and for all. Of course, that does not work. This ‘trying’ to get rid of the confusion only leads to more pain and to be honest - is very exhausting. It is not always easy to be very still when these patterns arise, but at times I find that whenever I find the courage to allow the confusion to just be here, without trying to fix it - there is a calmness and peace underneath. So for today - may I focus on my heart instead of my head whenever confusion visits. Apparantly it does not want to be fixed or understood, it just wants to be here for a little while and that’s okay. ❤️ #mayitbeso#heartoverhead#yinyoga#confusion#heart#love@sitaramayoga
Some faces of Survivors of deadly Brain Aneurysm. 1 in 50 person has this condition according to a global statistics.
Interestingly, one of the Risk Factor of deadly Brain Aneurysm is being BLACK. That means black race suffers this condition more than the white race. But unfortunately, due to lack of awareness and data so many are still in the dark when it comes to matters of brain disorders.
Wrong diagnosis and late diagnosis as well have contributed to the increase in mortality and disability rate associated with the condition.
One of the Community of Survivors came up with this Poster for Brain Aneurysm Survivors( AVM Survivors is loading). Thank you Cindy Davis of Brain Aneurysm (AVM) Community Together Survivor Support Association (ACT) for making this possible.... BSF celebrates every single Survivor here... You Are 1in 50 and you SURVIVED!
"I love you - your new feeling is that you are the source of my love. That is not really so. I am the source, you are just a screen on which I project my love. You are just a screen; I project my love on you and I say that you are the source of my love. That is not fact, this is fiction. I draw my love energy and project it onto you. In that love energy projected onto you, you become lovely.
You may not be lovely to someone else, you may be absolutely repulsive to someone else. Why? If you are the source of love than everyone will feel loving toward you, but you are not the source. I project love, then you become lovely; someone projects hate then can you become repulsive. And someone else doesn't project anything, he is indifferent so he may not even have looked at you.
Remember that you are the source, so do not move to the other, move to the source. When you feel hate, do not go to the object.
Go to the point from where the hate is coming. Go not to the person to whom it is going, but to the center from where it is coming. Use your hate or love or anger anything as a journey toward your inner Center. Move to the source and remain centered there.
The other is not the source, the source is always within you. The other is hitting the source, but if there is no anger within you it cannot come out. If you hit a Buddha only compassion will come out because only compassion is there. Anger will not come out because anger is not there. If you throw a bucket into a dry well nothing comes out. In a water-filled well you throw a bucket and water comes out but the water is from the well. The bucket only helps to bring it out so one who is insulting you is just throwing a bucket in you, and then the bucket will come out filled with anger hate or fire that was already within you. You are the source remember.
Whenever there is a mood against or for, immediately move within and go to the source from where this hate is coming. Remain centered there, do not move to the object. Someone has given you a chance to be aware of your own anger thank him immediately and forget him. Close your eyes, move within, and now look at the source from where this love or anger is coming."