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  • If you have a higher sex drive than your spouse, it’s important to know that there could be many different explanations. Porn use, low iron, emotional disconnection, side effects to medicine they’re taking, unresolved issues in your marriage, a lack of testosterone to name a few common ones.... but most of the time it’s STRESS! If your spouse is stressed out, their sex drive will be impacted. Stress is one of the top libido killers and is not good for your overall health - obviously. I think we all know this but what’s most important for your marriage is to come along side and help your stressed out spouse. Ask if you can help with more house chores or better yet- see a need- fill it! Start protecting your time spent together by talking and having fun on date nights. Deal with your conflict as it comes up (unresolved conflict can lead to even more issues and stress 😩). So rather than complaining about your spouse not being in the mood or assuming they don’t desire you, try to figure out why they have a lower sex drive than you and evaluate the stress in their life. They might try and say they’re not stressed, but the symptoms are usually obvious 👉🏼 No down time, lack of sleep, angry outbursts, emotional high and lows, a never ending task list, they don’t ask for help, inability to focus, headaches, moody, avoids others, and feels overwhelmed constantly. 😩Hopefully your support of listening and actively finding ways to support them will relieve the huge amounts of stress in their life which might lead to more sex 😜. #marriage365 #ichooselove
  • If you have a higher sex drive than your spouse, it’s important to know that there could be many different explanations. Porn use, low iron, emotional disconnection, side effects to medicine they’re taking, unresolved issues in your marriage, a lack of testosterone to name a few common ones.... but most of the time it’s STRESS! If your spouse is stressed out, their sex drive will be impacted. Stress is one of the top libido killers and is not good for your overall health - obviously. I think we all know this but what’s most important for your marriage is to come along side and help your stressed out spouse. Ask if you can help with more house chores or better yet- see a need- fill it! Start protecting your time spent together by talking and having fun on date nights. Deal with your conflict as it comes up (unresolved conflict can lead to even more issues and stress 😩). So rather than complaining about your spouse not being in the mood or assuming they don’t desire you, try to figure out why they have a lower sex drive than you and evaluate the stress in their life. They might try and say they’re not stressed, but the symptoms are usually obvious 👉🏼 No down time, lack of sleep, angry outbursts, emotional high and lows, a never ending task list, they don’t ask for help, inability to focus, headaches, moody, avoids others, and feels overwhelmed constantly. 😩Hopefully your support of listening and actively finding ways to support them will relieve the huge amounts of stress in their life which might lead to more sex 😜. #marriage365 #ichooselove
  • 3,806 191 24 April, 2019
  • Your babies are watching you. 👧🏾👦🏻🧒🏼. They see how you respond to disappointment (do you get explosive or use self-control?), they see how you respond to your own shortcomings (do you apologize or do you shift blame?), and they see how you love your spouse (is it conditional or unconditional?). Most importantly of all..... as they’re watching you... they are also learning from you. They learn from your relationship with your spouse and how to handle conflict and how to love. They learn how to listen intentionally and how to be empathetic and compassionate. ....or.... they might  learning the opposite. Ouch, right?.
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Deeply consider what messages your marriage is sending. 👉🏻Be careful, parents, what you do. Your sweet little ones are watching you. ❤️. #marriage365 #ichooselove 📸: @koriandjared
  • Your babies are watching you. 👧🏾👦🏻🧒🏼. They see how you respond to disappointment (do you get explosive or use self-control?), they see how you respond to your own shortcomings (do you apologize or do you shift blame?), and they see how you love your spouse (is it conditional or unconditional?). Most importantly of all..... as they’re watching you... they are also learning from you. They learn from your relationship with your spouse and how to handle conflict and how to love. They learn how to listen intentionally and how to be empathetic and compassionate. ....or.... they might learning the opposite. Ouch, right?.
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    Deeply consider what messages your marriage is sending. 👉🏻Be careful, parents, what you do. Your sweet little ones are watching you. ❤️. #marriage365 #ichooselove 📸: @koriandjared
  • 3,009 90 3 hours ago
  • We schedule sex 🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏻‍♂️ and we love it! And every time we talk about scheduling sex we get tons of comments that it kills the romance, that sex should be spontaneous and that we’re weird! 😜 Maybe we are weird but guess what? We’re having sex consistently while most married couples are not. And for us, if we don’t put it on the calendar, it won’t happen. We’re just too busy with life and we have found that people make time for the things that matter most and sex matters to us. ❤️ So here’s how this works. If you and your spouse are having amazing spontaneous sex frequently and you are both satisfied with how often you are getting it on in the bedroom, then there’s no need to schedule sex! Keep doing what you’re doing and enjoy 💋 BUT...we know that the majority of married couples are not satisfied with the frequency of their intimacy and so if that’s you, maybe it’s time to consider scheduling it. 🤔 Also, Casey is extra romantic and kind the entire day leading up to our scheduled sex. He typically will buy me flowers or my favorite coffee drink. He puts the kids to bed and does the dishes. He sends me romantic texts too! So I love it ladies! ☺️ ❤️ A great question to ask your spouse today 👉🏼 “Are you satisfied with how often we have sex and why?” Wait for their response and then follow up with “Would you ever be open to scheduling sex?” (And we want to hear from all of you who schedule it in the comments. Let’s encourage other busy couples and show them that it’s actually a great way to make sure your marriage is a priority!) 💥#marriage365 #ichooselove #maketimeforwhatmatters
  • We schedule sex 🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏻‍♂️ and we love it! And every time we talk about scheduling sex we get tons of comments that it kills the romance, that sex should be spontaneous and that we’re weird! 😜 Maybe we are weird but guess what? We’re having sex consistently while most married couples are not. And for us, if we don’t put it on the calendar, it won’t happen. We’re just too busy with life and we have found that people make time for the things that matter most and sex matters to us. ❤️ So here’s how this works. If you and your spouse are having amazing spontaneous sex frequently and you are both satisfied with how often you are getting it on in the bedroom, then there’s no need to schedule sex! Keep doing what you’re doing and enjoy 💋 BUT...we know that the majority of married couples are not satisfied with the frequency of their intimacy and so if that’s you, maybe it’s time to consider scheduling it. 🤔 Also, Casey is extra romantic and kind the entire day leading up to our scheduled sex. He typically will buy me flowers or my favorite coffee drink. He puts the kids to bed and does the dishes. He sends me romantic texts too! So I love it ladies! ☺️ ❤️ A great question to ask your spouse today 👉🏼 “Are you satisfied with how often we have sex and why?” Wait for their response and then follow up with “Would you ever be open to scheduling sex?” (And we want to hear from all of you who schedule it in the comments. Let’s encourage other busy couples and show them that it’s actually a great way to make sure your marriage is a priority!) 💥 #marriage365 #ichooselove #maketimeforwhatmatters
  • 5,247 328 10 April, 2019
  • There is a HUGE difference between ❤️ loving yourself ❤️ and being “narcissistic” or “self-absorbed”. Here are some really important key points:
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👍🏻Self Love: Being confident in who you are with the hopes and intentions to use your strengths for the betterment of both yourself and everyone around you, while still clinging to humility and recognizing that you can always improve somewhere on your journey to being the best version of yourself. 😍.
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👎🏻 Narcissism: Being pompous about who you are with the hopes and intentions to assert that you are better than those around you, while clinging to pride and the belief that you don’t have any “growth” areas and are “better than the best” exactly the way you currently are. 💔.
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Which one are you? 🙈. Not sure? Message us! .

#Marriage365 #ichooselove
  • There is a HUGE difference between ❤️ loving yourself ❤️ and being “narcissistic” or “self-absorbed”. Here are some really important key points:
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    👍🏻Self Love: Being confident in who you are with the hopes and intentions to use your strengths for the betterment of both yourself and everyone around you, while still clinging to humility and recognizing that you can always improve somewhere on your journey to being the best version of yourself. 😍.
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    👎🏻 Narcissism: Being pompous about who you are with the hopes and intentions to assert that you are better than those around you, while clinging to pride and the belief that you don’t have any “growth” areas and are “better than the best” exactly the way you currently are. 💔.
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    Which one are you? 🙈. Not sure? Message us! .

    #Marriage365 #ichooselove
  • 2,808 37 19 April, 2019
  • Multiple times a DAY we get messages that all boil down to the fear of “my spouse must not love me because he or she doesn’t make time for me”. It breaks our hearts! You’ll hear us say often that “the average couple waits 6 years too long to get help”. And we keep repeating it because we hope that at some point it will sink in for every single one of you reading this that even ONE DAY lived in disconnection from your spouse is precious time you’ll never get back with them... and we don’t want to see you look back in 6 years and be like “Man... I put all these things before my spouse  for so long that I pushed them away from me... and now it’s too late”. Don’t get us wrong, we believe that almost any marriage can fight their way back from the brink of divorce if BOTH parties are willing and committed to doing so. HOWEVER... what if you get there and your spouse ISN’T willing? What if there’s been too much hurt and they aren’t willing to forgive or willing to try again? Is that a risk you’re willing to take? Does your spouse deserve to be at the bottom of your priority list simply because they agreed to love you until death do you part and will conveniently be there when you’re ready to pay attention to them? 🤔. Please, don’t deny your spouse the attention they crave and deserve from you. Don’t let so much time go by that they grow bitter and cold and distant. Check your priorities, talk to your spouse to make sure they’re feeling important, and adjust where necessary. You’ll thank us later, but most importantly....in 6 years when you and your spouse are doing great while marriages around you aren’t because they didn’t take this advice.... you’ll thank yourself 😉. #marriage365 #ichooselove #checkyourselfbeforeyouwreckyourself
  • Multiple times a DAY we get messages that all boil down to the fear of “my spouse must not love me because he or she doesn’t make time for me”. It breaks our hearts! You’ll hear us say often that “the average couple waits 6 years too long to get help”. And we keep repeating it because we hope that at some point it will sink in for every single one of you reading this that even ONE DAY lived in disconnection from your spouse is precious time you’ll never get back with them... and we don’t want to see you look back in 6 years and be like “Man... I put all these things before my spouse for so long that I pushed them away from me... and now it’s too late”. Don’t get us wrong, we believe that almost any marriage can fight their way back from the brink of divorce if BOTH parties are willing and committed to doing so. HOWEVER... what if you get there and your spouse ISN’T willing? What if there’s been too much hurt and they aren’t willing to forgive or willing to try again? Is that a risk you’re willing to take? Does your spouse deserve to be at the bottom of your priority list simply because they agreed to love you until death do you part and will conveniently be there when you’re ready to pay attention to them? 🤔. Please, don’t deny your spouse the attention they crave and deserve from you. Don’t let so much time go by that they grow bitter and cold and distant. Check your priorities, talk to your spouse to make sure they’re feeling important, and adjust where necessary. You’ll thank us later, but most importantly....in 6 years when you and your spouse are doing great while marriages around you aren’t because they didn’t take this advice.... you’ll thank yourself 😉. #marriage365 #ichooselove #checkyourselfbeforeyouwreckyourself
  • 4,537 85 16 April, 2019
  • In life, there are seasons of fun and adventure, and there are seasons of hardship and stress. Parenting young kids is a physically exhausting season. Parenting teens is mentally and emotionally overwhelming. There are seasons where work is rewarding and you feel accomplished. And there are seasons where you feel connected to your spouse and can’t get enough of them. There are seasons of marriage when you feel like two ships passing in the wind and the emotional connection is majorly lacking. I’m sure you’ve experienced the good and bad seasons of life, but make sure your marriage is always a priority. That you don’t allow those bad/exhausting/stressful seasons to become the norm where you check out on autopilot. Marriage is forever! Your marriage is the most important relationship you’ll ever have! #marriage365 #ichooselove 📸 by @aaronandjillian
  • In life, there are seasons of fun and adventure, and there are seasons of hardship and stress. Parenting young kids is a physically exhausting season. Parenting teens is mentally and emotionally overwhelming. There are seasons where work is rewarding and you feel accomplished. And there are seasons where you feel connected to your spouse and can’t get enough of them. There are seasons of marriage when you feel like two ships passing in the wind and the emotional connection is majorly lacking. I’m sure you’ve experienced the good and bad seasons of life, but make sure your marriage is always a priority. That you don’t allow those bad/exhausting/stressful seasons to become the norm where you check out on autopilot. Marriage is forever! Your marriage is the most important relationship you’ll ever have! #marriage365 #ichooselove 📸 by @aaronandjillian
  • 5,532 83 23 March, 2019

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  • This man. 😍 
He's hardworking and selfless. ❤
What you see in this picture is him busy at weedwacking. What you don't see is what he used to wear EVERY time he weedwacked or mowed even simple green grass.

THE RESPIRATOR. 😷

It was his campinion when mowing the lawn or doing any yard work, because without it he would get itchy, watery eyes and be sneezing and constantly blowing his nose for the next 24-48 hours. 
When I started my own gut health journey, he was my supporter, but skeptical...very skeptical and I couldn't blame him. It wasn't until seeing my health improve so much that he finally told me he was willing to try it. He got kind of desperate for relief, especially after developing some skin issues on one of his wrists that was driving him crazy!
So I got him the supplements I love so much and have now been taking for 5 years. ❤
This picture means a lot to me, because he STILL comes to me and tells me that he would NEVER have been able to go without a respirator through tall weeds and grass...and now?? Just a pair of glasses to protect his eyes from things flying in his face and no watery eyes, wheezing, or sneezing. 🤧
He is still amazed and thankful every time. Watching him work without that huge mask NEVER...GETS...OLD. 🙌
Oh and the skin issue on his wrist? Gone in 2 weeks after trying to get rid of it for months! 👊🙌 Gut health matters, friends!!! ❤

#GutHealth #BodyBalance #ByeByeInflammation #ByeByeRespirator #FreedomFromTheKleenex #HappyHusband
  • This man. 😍
    He's hardworking and selfless. ❤
    What you see in this picture is him busy at weedwacking. What you don't see is what he used to wear EVERY time he weedwacked or mowed even simple green grass.

    THE RESPIRATOR. 😷

    It was his campinion when mowing the lawn or doing any yard work, because without it he would get itchy, watery eyes and be sneezing and constantly blowing his nose for the next 24-48 hours.
    When I started my own gut health journey, he was my supporter, but skeptical...very skeptical and I couldn't blame him. It wasn't until seeing my health improve so much that he finally told me he was willing to try it. He got kind of desperate for relief, especially after developing some skin issues on one of his wrists that was driving him crazy!
    So I got him the supplements I love so much and have now been taking for 5 years. ❤
    This picture means a lot to me, because he STILL comes to me and tells me that he would NEVER have been able to go without a respirator through tall weeds and grass...and now?? Just a pair of glasses to protect his eyes from things flying in his face and no watery eyes, wheezing, or sneezing. 🤧
    He is still amazed and thankful every time. Watching him work without that huge mask NEVER...GETS...OLD. 🙌
    Oh and the skin issue on his wrist? Gone in 2 weeks after trying to get rid of it for months! 👊🙌 Gut health matters, friends!!! ❤

    #GutHealth #BodyBalance #ByeByeInflammation #ByeByeRespirator #FreedomFromTheKleenex #HappyHusband
  • 2 0 17 minutes ago
  • Your babies are watching you. 👧🏾👦🏻🧒🏼. They see how you respond to disappointment (do you get explosive or use self-control?), they see how you respond to your own shortcomings (do you apologize or do you shift blame?), and they see how you love your spouse (is it conditional or unconditional?). Most importantly of all..... as they’re watching you... they are also learning from you. They learn from your relationship with your spouse and how to handle conflict and how to love. They learn how to listen intentionally and how to be empathetic and compassionate. ....or.... they might  learning the opposite. Ouch, right?.
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Deeply consider what messages your marriage is sending. 👉🏻Be careful, parents, what you do. Your sweet little ones are watching you. ❤️. #marriage365 #ichooselove 📸: @koriandjared
  • Your babies are watching you. 👧🏾👦🏻🧒🏼. They see how you respond to disappointment (do you get explosive or use self-control?), they see how you respond to your own shortcomings (do you apologize or do you shift blame?), and they see how you love your spouse (is it conditional or unconditional?). Most importantly of all..... as they’re watching you... they are also learning from you. They learn from your relationship with your spouse and how to handle conflict and how to love. They learn how to listen intentionally and how to be empathetic and compassionate. ....or.... they might learning the opposite. Ouch, right?.
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    Deeply consider what messages your marriage is sending. 👉🏻Be careful, parents, what you do. Your sweet little ones are watching you. ❤️. #marriage365 #ichooselove 📸: @koriandjared
  • 3,009 90 3 hours ago
  • The bible says that without a vision, the people perish. What's your vision for your marriage? When you've decided this with your spouse, come up with some strategies to make your marriage the way you envision it.
  • The bible says that without a vision, the people perish. What's your vision for your marriage? When you've decided this with your spouse, come up with some strategies to make your marriage the way you envision it.
  • 6 1 6 hours ago
  • One of my IG sisters needs to hear this today ⬇️⬇️
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He is not the enemy. Your husband is not the one you should be pitted against. The grass is not greener on the other side.
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So often our anger and frustration is aimed towards the people (or person) we care the most about. Why is this? Why are THEY in the line of fire all the time? 
It's because Satan knows that you are stronger *together*. Satan knows that if he can steal, kill & destroy your life starting at the base...your marriage...it's hard to bounce back from.
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Love & marriage are literally a day to day choice. Love is not a feeling - it is an action. The act of loving your spouse is an act of loving God. That can be hard, right??
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So what can we do to ensure our husbands are not our enemies? ➡️ KEEP THEM IN PERSPECTIVE. Remind yourself daily that 👏he 👏 is 👏 not 👏 God. He can't fill the voids that only God can. That's totally unfair to him to put that much responsibility on your marriage.
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✴Pray for your husband.
✴Choose him everyday in love
✴Don't make him your god
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Intentionality of seeking strength in marriage with the help of Jesus is the only way to be on the same team.
  • One of my IG sisters needs to hear this today ⬇️⬇️

    He is not the enemy. Your husband is not the one you should be pitted against. The grass is not greener on the other side.

    So often our anger and frustration is aimed towards the people (or person) we care the most about. Why is this? Why are THEY in the line of fire all the time?
    It's because Satan knows that you are stronger *together*. Satan knows that if he can steal, kill & destroy your life starting at the base...your marriage...it's hard to bounce back from.

    Love & marriage are literally a day to day choice. Love is not a feeling - it is an action. The act of loving your spouse is an act of loving God. That can be hard, right??

    So what can we do to ensure our husbands are not our enemies? ➡️ KEEP THEM IN PERSPECTIVE. Remind yourself daily that 👏he 👏 is 👏 not 👏 God. He can't fill the voids that only God can. That's totally unfair to him to put that much responsibility on your marriage.

    ✴Pray for your husband.
    ✴Choose him everyday in love
    ✴Don't make him your god

    Intentionality of seeking strength in marriage with the help of Jesus is the only way to be on the same team.
  • 37 13 7 hours ago
  • My husband got me a ring before going to work. Its beautiful I love you Wes 💖💝💋😇 thank you 
#HappyWife#HappyHusband
  • My husband got me a ring before going to work. Its beautiful I love you Wes 💖💝💋😇 thank you
    #HappyWife #HappyHusband
  • 5 0 7 hours ago
  • Aló Aló mis querides #LocurasFans! Hoy les traigo la reseña y un sorpresa sobre las cajas de @dagustoentucocina
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Primero que nada, saben que fui contando y mostrando todo en las stories así que las dejé destacadas en la carpeta DA GUSTO y ahí les iré contando semana a semana sobre todas las recetas que haga! Ya recibí mi segunda caja y hoy hago el pastel de calabaza y ya me babeo de solo pensalo jajaja
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Qué es Da Gusto? Es un servicio que te brinda la posibilidad de reconectarte con la cocina, ayudando a descartar el "¿Qué cómemos?" y te entrega todos los ingredientes fraccionados y la receta para que puedas disfrutar de una comida casera y sencilla de hacer. La caja se entrega en forma semanal (yo la retiro por un tema de que estoy fuera de rango) y se puede elegir para cuántos comensales es, de 2 en adelante. 
Para nosotros es la alternativa al delivery en el que caemos cuando justamente no hacemos compras a tiempo. . 
En mi corta experiencia con este servicio debo decir que me dio un alivio enorme al peso mental de elegir qué comer, la calidad de los ingredientes superó por lejos mis expectativas (todo altamente fresco y se nota que muchos productos son muy bien seleccionados), las recetas son fáciles de seguir, los platos son abundantes (muchos para nosotros son 3 porciones en vez de 2) y por sobre todo, cada uno de los platos, incluso el de BERENJENAS (que no nos gustan (?)), fue DELICIOSO. . 
Sale $1560 la caja para dos personas con el envío incluido. Pueden ver en la web de ellos las zonas de entrega que tienen y les digo que no duden en contactarse al mail en caso de no estar en rango porque pueden darles alguna opción. Pueden elegir la opción suscripción que se abona anticipado 4 cajas con descuento y se entregan en forma semanal.
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PAULA! ¿Y la sorpresa?! HAY CUPÓN DE 10% de DESCUENTO PARA MIS SEGUIDORES en la primer compra! Ingresen LOCURASDEPAU en el sector "tu cupón de descuento" cuando hacen el check out desde la página! .
Les interesa este tipo de servicios? Lo consumirían? Qué opinan de la relación costo/calidad/cantidad?
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#recetas #buenosaires #food #foodporn #foodie #foodofinstagram #foodgasm #happyhusband #easy #tasty
  • Aló Aló mis querides #LocurasFans ! Hoy les traigo la reseña y un sorpresa sobre las cajas de @dagustoentucocina
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    Primero que nada, saben que fui contando y mostrando todo en las stories así que las dejé destacadas en la carpeta DA GUSTO y ahí les iré contando semana a semana sobre todas las recetas que haga! Ya recibí mi segunda caja y hoy hago el pastel de calabaza y ya me babeo de solo pensalo jajaja
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    Qué es Da Gusto? Es un servicio que te brinda la posibilidad de reconectarte con la cocina, ayudando a descartar el "¿Qué cómemos?" y te entrega todos los ingredientes fraccionados y la receta para que puedas disfrutar de una comida casera y sencilla de hacer. La caja se entrega en forma semanal (yo la retiro por un tema de que estoy fuera de rango) y se puede elegir para cuántos comensales es, de 2 en adelante.
    Para nosotros es la alternativa al delivery en el que caemos cuando justamente no hacemos compras a tiempo. .
    En mi corta experiencia con este servicio debo decir que me dio un alivio enorme al peso mental de elegir qué comer, la calidad de los ingredientes superó por lejos mis expectativas (todo altamente fresco y se nota que muchos productos son muy bien seleccionados), las recetas son fáciles de seguir, los platos son abundantes (muchos para nosotros son 3 porciones en vez de 2) y por sobre todo, cada uno de los platos, incluso el de BERENJENAS (que no nos gustan (?)), fue DELICIOSO. .
    Sale $1560 la caja para dos personas con el envío incluido. Pueden ver en la web de ellos las zonas de entrega que tienen y les digo que no duden en contactarse al mail en caso de no estar en rango porque pueden darles alguna opción. Pueden elegir la opción suscripción que se abona anticipado 4 cajas con descuento y se entregan en forma semanal.
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    PAULA! ¿Y la sorpresa?! HAY CUPÓN DE 10% de DESCUENTO PARA MIS SEGUIDORES en la primer compra! Ingresen LOCURASDEPAU en el sector "tu cupón de descuento" cuando hacen el check out desde la página! .
    Les interesa este tipo de servicios? Lo consumirían? Qué opinan de la relación costo/calidad/cantidad?
    .
    #recetas #buenosaires #food #foodporn #foodie #foodofinstagram #foodgasm #happyhusband #easy #tasty
  • 19 2 8 hours ago
  • Ray and I are so different in our needs and this is one of them. He taught me how much it means to him to simply ask questions about him, about his day, about anything. Don't expect your spouse to know how much you care. Make it a habit to ask questions that show them that you care and are paying attention to them.
  • Ray and I are so different in our needs and this is one of them. He taught me how much it means to him to simply ask questions about him, about his day, about anything. Don't expect your spouse to know how much you care. Make it a habit to ask questions that show them that you care and are paying attention to them.
  • 13 3 15 hours ago
  • Never assume that your spouse knows how much you care about them. Don’t think that you’ve said thank you enough. Don’t allow your busyness to get in the way of reminding your spouse that you have their back and are on their team. And when your spouse has hurt you, choose to forgive them. 🗣 A simple text message or kind comment at the dinner table can work wonders in your marriage. Creating a healthy marriage isn’t rocket science. It just requires your time and attention. #marriage365 #communicationiskey #ichooselove
  • Never assume that your spouse knows how much you care about them. Don’t think that you’ve said thank you enough. Don’t allow your busyness to get in the way of reminding your spouse that you have their back and are on their team. And when your spouse has hurt you, choose to forgive them. 🗣 A simple text message or kind comment at the dinner table can work wonders in your marriage. Creating a healthy marriage isn’t rocket science. It just requires your time and attention. #marriage365 #communicationiskey #ichooselove
  • 4,692 152 17 hours ago
  • Make sure you are not being selfish focusing only on your needs.
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    I’m SUPER excited to invite you to paricipate in my Conflict Resolution in marriage series.
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    Part 1 - The secret to resolving conflict without yelling. (This works even when you're right!)
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    Will I see you there? Register for this series by clicking the link in my BIO
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  • 268 5 18 hours ago
  • This isn’t the usual “Happy Anniversary” post but it’s still my favorite video of us that makes me smile. The past years have been simply amazing and have made my life completely happy and joyful. Some days are harder than others but that doesn’t make me love you any less. You are the most perfect and flawless person I have ever met and the perfect fit for me. The amount of love you give each and every day no matter how tired you are makes it to where Little Drew and I have the happiest days of our lives. Thank you for being such an outstanding mother and wife and I cannot wait for the years to come, I love you babe and happy 4yr anniversary! #happyhusband #perfectwife #myotherhalf
  • This isn’t the usual “Happy Anniversary” post but it’s still my favorite video of us that makes me smile. The past years have been simply amazing and have made my life completely happy and joyful. Some days are harder than others but that doesn’t make me love you any less. You are the most perfect and flawless person I have ever met and the perfect fit for me. The amount of love you give each and every day no matter how tired you are makes it to where Little Drew and I have the happiest days of our lives. Thank you for being such an outstanding mother and wife and I cannot wait for the years to come, I love you babe and happy 4yr anniversary! #happyhusband #perfectwife #myotherhalf
  • 43 0 19 hours ago
  • Recently I was talking with one of my besties & debating if I should be in a “weight loss” or “maintain” nutrition category.

The number currently showing on the scale is about 7lbs higher than what I’m used to seeing & I’ll admit that that’s a little weird for me to see. (Left photo). For three years I maintained a range in my weight that felt good to me & I just grew accustomed to seeing the correlation of the number on the scale and how good I was feelingly that time. (Right photo). As I was talking to her I realized how much more fixated I was on some number than I was on how I feel - as if the new number defined who I am & what I’ve accomplished. Or the opposite.

LIKE. WHAT. IN. THE. WORLD.!!! Since gaining that extra weight I’ve worked my butt off physically, emotionally & mentally!

I’ve overcome more than I thought I would ever experience and I’m proud of how I FEEL & also what I see IN THE MIRROR!

So here’s to screwing the scale!

I’ll still use it here and there, I’m sure! Especially when the doctor will need to know 🤷🏻‍♀️ idk

BUUUUTTTTT!!!! The scale will NOT define ME!!! And I hope you don’t let it define YOU!! Hard work in becoming the best version of yourself - let that be what you remember and fixate on if anything at all!

My next bootcamp community kicks off May 6th! Message me for the details ❤️ xoxo

#wcw #loveyourselffirst #screwthescale #hardworkpaysoffs #strongwomenlifteachotherup #bootcamp #weightisjustanumber #transformationphoto #athomeworkouts #nutritionmatters #lifeafterloss
  • Recently I was talking with one of my besties & debating if I should be in a “weight loss” or “maintain” nutrition category.

    The number currently showing on the scale is about 7lbs higher than what I’m used to seeing & I’ll admit that that’s a little weird for me to see. (Left photo). For three years I maintained a range in my weight that felt good to me & I just grew accustomed to seeing the correlation of the number on the scale and how good I was feelingly that time. (Right photo). As I was talking to her I realized how much more fixated I was on some number than I was on how I feel - as if the new number defined who I am & what I’ve accomplished. Or the opposite.

    LIKE. WHAT. IN. THE. WORLD.!!! Since gaining that extra weight I’ve worked my butt off physically, emotionally & mentally!

    I’ve overcome more than I thought I would ever experience and I’m proud of how I FEEL & also what I see IN THE MIRROR!

    So here’s to screwing the scale!

    I’ll still use it here and there, I’m sure! Especially when the doctor will need to know 🤷🏻‍♀️ idk

    BUUUUTTTTT!!!! The scale will NOT define ME!!! And I hope you don’t let it define YOU!! Hard work in becoming the best version of yourself - let that be what you remember and fixate on if anything at all!

    My next bootcamp community kicks off May 6th! Message me for the details ❤️ xoxo

    #wcw #loveyourselffirst #screwthescale #hardworkpaysoffs #strongwomenlifteachotherup #bootcamp #weightisjustanumber #transformationphoto #athomeworkouts #nutritionmatters #lifeafterloss
  • 44 7 20 hours ago
  • Single people,  married folks are off limits 
If you hear any of these phrases they're OFF LIMITS "We are seperated waiting on the divorce to be final"
"I don't love him or her anymore"
" I am leaving"

Separation is a time for spouses to see if they can reconcile ! not a time to date other people or as this generation says go on break. ( there is no break in marriage🙄😮)Understand that if you become involved with a married person you also become a part of the adultery and GOD holds both accountable .

Married folks, Honor your vows .
Single people honor their vows, and the vows of marriage, and allow GOD to bless you with an available spouse. 
I say this as my opinion, even when is spouse is freshly divorced ,it is not a time to date them or prey on them , they are hurting and you may quickly cause a rebound situation.  Honor your vows honor marriage.  Don't sow bad seeds

Here are 5 different verses coming from the gospels(bible)that address adultery and how serious GOD is about it. Don't hurt your spouse like that and don't put yourself in jeopardy with GOD. Just because this society promotes divorce as a remedy to marital problems it's often not... Matthew 5:32
But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, brings adultery upon her. And whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

Mark 10:12
And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery." Luke 16:18
Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and he who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

1 Corinthians 7:10
To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband.

1 Corinthians 7:12
To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If a brother has an unbelieving wife and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her.

#marriage #youngblackandmarried #husband #wife #husbandandwife #Mywife #happywife #happywifehappylife
#ilovemyhusband #marriagegoals #husbands #marriages #wifematerial  #husbandmaterial #wifeandhusband #husbandstobe #ilovemywife #Happymarriage #Happyhusband #husbandgoals #wifemeup #husbandlove #marriages #marriagequotes #husband
  • Single people, married folks are off limits
    If you hear any of these phrases they're OFF LIMITS "We are seperated waiting on the divorce to be final"
    "I don't love him or her anymore"
    " I am leaving"

    Separation is a time for spouses to see if they can reconcile ! not a time to date other people or as this generation says go on break. ( there is no break in marriage🙄😮)Understand that if you become involved with a married person you also become a part of the adultery and GOD holds both accountable .

    Married folks, Honor your vows .
    Single people honor their vows, and the vows of marriage, and allow GOD to bless you with an available spouse.
    I say this as my opinion, even when is spouse is freshly divorced ,it is not a time to date them or prey on them , they are hurting and you may quickly cause a rebound situation. Honor your vows honor marriage. Don't sow bad seeds

    Here are 5 different verses coming from the gospels(bible)that address adultery and how serious GOD is about it. Don't hurt your spouse like that and don't put yourself in jeopardy with GOD. Just because this society promotes divorce as a remedy to marital problems it's often not... Matthew 5:32
    But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, brings adultery upon her. And whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

    Mark 10:12
    And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery." Luke 16:18
    Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and he who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

    1 Corinthians 7:10
    To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband.

    1 Corinthians 7:12
    To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If a brother has an unbelieving wife and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her.

    #marriage #youngblackandmarried #husband #wife #husbandandwife #Mywife #happywife #happywifehappylife
    #ilovemyhusband #marriagegoals #husbands #marriages #wifematerial #husbandmaterial #wifeandhusband #husbandstobe #ilovemywife #Happymarriage #Happyhusband #husbandgoals #wifemeup #husbandlove #marriages #marriagequotes #husband
  • 87 13 21 hours ago
  • I miss you already. The turnaround was short this time but I’m happy I got to celebrate you in #Cuba. I thank God every day for the man that you are, and I can’t wait until I’m back with you 😘 #happybirthday #happyhusband #happywife #happylife
  • I miss you already. The turnaround was short this time but I’m happy I got to celebrate you in #Cuba . I thank God every day for the man that you are, and I can’t wait until I’m back with you 😘 #happybirthday #happyhusband #happywife #happylife
  • 119 13 21 hours ago
  • In keeping with the “what are your dreams and goals” post earlier this week. I wanted to share this photo with you as it says it all!! Yes, I was pretty excited to drive this beast!!.
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My husband enjoyed a fabulous and inspirational weekend at a symposium in Queensland earlier this year.
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He’s always had a thing for V8 cars and the Mustang in particular. So, I decided that this was the perfect opportunity for me to surprise him. I made contact with @qldluxurycarrentals ⠀⠀⠀
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The arrangements were made with the amazing Bran that he would drop the car to our hotel in the morning, all I had to do was bring him out to the entrance. I was so excited, could barely eat breakfast. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
We walked slowly through a busy reception and I saw the car pull up, oh my, I said something about “hey look at that gorgeous car” then Bran got out and said “she organised this for you” boom there you have it. He didn’t know what to do or say!!
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We so enjoyed the car, what an utterly amazing experience. The sound, power and speed (strictly stuck to speed limits!) and handling. Amazing.
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This car is now on the vision board, it’s happening 💕🥂✨
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I could have said no to organising this surprise but I wanted to make a wonderful memory and have the experience of driving something so amazing and powerful and I have zero regrets about doing so. You have to live life and do all of the things when you have the opportunity to do so. Don’t hesitate, just make it happen!! 💪
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  • In keeping with the “what are your dreams and goals” post earlier this week. I wanted to share this photo with you as it says it all!! Yes, I was pretty excited to drive this beast!!.
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    My husband enjoyed a fabulous and inspirational weekend at a symposium in Queensland earlier this year.
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    He’s always had a thing for V8 cars and the Mustang in particular. So, I decided that this was the perfect opportunity for me to surprise him. I made contact with @qldluxurycarrentals ⠀⠀⠀
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    The arrangements were made with the amazing Bran that he would drop the car to our hotel in the morning, all I had to do was bring him out to the entrance. I was so excited, could barely eat breakfast. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
    We walked slowly through a busy reception and I saw the car pull up, oh my, I said something about “hey look at that gorgeous car” then Bran got out and said “she organised this for you” boom there you have it. He didn’t know what to do or say!!
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    We so enjoyed the car, what an utterly amazing experience. The sound, power and speed (strictly stuck to speed limits!) and handling. Amazing.
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    This car is now on the vision board, it’s happening 💕🥂✨
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    I could have said no to organising this surprise but I wanted to make a wonderful memory and have the experience of driving something so amazing and powerful and I have zero regrets about doing so. You have to live life and do all of the things when you have the opportunity to do so. Don’t hesitate, just make it happen!! 💪
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    #mustang #qldluxurycarrental #sayyes #liveyourbestlife #inspirationboard #shine #goals #life #postivevibes #YL20AU #doitanyway #lifestyle #happyhusband #makeithappen #Basi6
  • 23 7 22 hours ago
  • Client Testimonial.....
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What I have learned about marriage! Whoop!! I have learned a lot.  First and foremost I have learned that marriage works!  And it will always work when you put God at the center of your union.  Also, I have learned a lot on the duties of a wife to a husband, (he who finds a wife, finds a good thing) and I have learned to be a prayerful wife, a prayerful partner and how to treat my husband and my marriage.
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Thank you so much @ConnectingLoveAndMarriage😍.
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Name: Ann Kary
Instagram:  @ann_kary
Youtube: (Ann Kary K)
Twitter: @AnnWangariK
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I love when my clients are happy!
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  • Client Testimonial.....
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    What I have learned about marriage! Whoop!! I have learned a lot. First and foremost I have learned that marriage works! And it will always work when you put God at the center of your union. Also, I have learned a lot on the duties of a wife to a husband, (he who finds a wife, finds a good thing) and I have learned to be a prayerful wife, a prayerful partner and how to treat my husband and my marriage.
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    Thank you so much @ConnectingLoveAndMarriage😍.
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    Name: Ann Kary
    Instagram: @ann_kary
    Youtube: (Ann Kary K)
    Twitter: @AnnWangariK
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    I love when my clients are happy!

    DM the word BLISS19 to receive a coupon code for my ebook that is transforming marriages.
  • 15 1 22 hours ago