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  • Sometimes love is not enough.

Because in relationship, just speaking or hearing the words “I love you” does not replace the need for respect, honesty, authenticity, and freedom of expression.

There will be times when even though we feel love for someone, the highest choice is to remove our energy in service of our hearts.

This is where the deep work begins. To learn to hold compassion in our hearts while also saying “no, I don’t accept that” when it comes to any form of abusive, manipulative or harmful behaviour.

We can love others and still put ourselves first. No one else is going to do that - it really is our job to ensure that we are loving and being loved to our fullest potential.

We can love someone and understand “why” they do what they do, and still not allow them to cause us any further heartache and pain.

Understanding the root of someone’s pain means we can see that they are operating from a wound and repeating their own trauma.

It means we don’t take the traditional route of demonizing them or making their behaviour mean anything about our worth.

But then we must also remember that it is not up to us to save people from their pain. That we are not 
responsible for healing their wounds, or fixing their troubles.

In relationship, we can only truly become partners in healing when we are each totally responsible for our own emotions and internal world.

From that place, we can become allies in the journey to free ourselves from our past conditioning, traumas, and fears of intimacy, connection and love.

Without total responsibility on both sides, we are engaged in a codependent dance that reinforces the idea that we must give ourselves away for the sake of love.

Remember that words are fairly meaningless without action to back them up.

You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.

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#heartbreak #lettinggo #decisions #divorce #breakup #separation #pain #suffering #ego #shadowwork #loss #risingwoman #empowered #truth #healing #selfloving #mindfulness #relationships #consciousrelationship
  • Sometimes love is not enough.

    Because in relationship, just speaking or hearing the words “I love you” does not replace the need for respect, honesty, authenticity, and freedom of expression.

    There will be times when even though we feel love for someone, the highest choice is to remove our energy in service of our hearts.

    This is where the deep work begins. To learn to hold compassion in our hearts while also saying “no, I don’t accept that” when it comes to any form of abusive, manipulative or harmful behaviour.

    We can love others and still put ourselves first. No one else is going to do that - it really is our job to ensure that we are loving and being loved to our fullest potential.

    We can love someone and understand “why” they do what they do, and still not allow them to cause us any further heartache and pain.

    Understanding the root of someone’s pain means we can see that they are operating from a wound and repeating their own trauma.
    
It means we don’t take the traditional route of demonizing them or making their behaviour mean anything about our worth.

    But then we must also remember that it is not up to us to save people from their pain. That we are not
    responsible for healing their wounds, or fixing their troubles.

    In relationship, we can only truly become partners in healing when we are each totally responsible for our own emotions and internal world.

    From that place, we can become allies in the journey to free ourselves from our past conditioning, traumas, and fears of intimacy, connection and love.

    Without total responsibility on both sides, we are engaged in a codependent dance that reinforces the idea that we must give ourselves away for the sake of love.

    Remember that words are fairly meaningless without action to back them up.

    You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.

    Words @sheleanaaiyana
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    #heartbreak #lettinggo #decisions #divorce #breakup #separation #pain #suffering #ego #shadowwork #loss #risingwoman #empowered #truth #healing #selfloving #mindfulness #relationships #consciousrelationship
  • 45,111 634 18 January, 2020
  • One lovely feeling! Tag your worthy person. 😁☺️💯 #2901 #lovequotes suggested by Pranay Singh.
  • One lovely feeling! Tag your worthy person. 😁☺️💯 #2901 #lovequotes suggested by Pranay Singh.
  • 10,427 51 18 January, 2020
  • • sorry I blocked you but you broke my heart.
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my first two books are available worldwide. link in bio! ✨
  • • sorry I blocked you but you broke my heart.
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    my first two books are available worldwide. link in bio! ✨
  • 4,737 57 19 January, 2020
  • • the nature of heartbreak: I will grieve what I have to, and try not to lose the memory of you.
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both my books are available worldwide. link in bio 🪐
  • • the nature of heartbreak: I will grieve what I have to, and try not to lose the memory of you.
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    both my books are available worldwide. link in bio 🪐
  • 2,126 15 6 hours ago
  • I get the feeling that you’ll never need me again
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[via @alexandremkfilm ]
  • I get the feeling that you’ll never need me again
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    [via @alexandremkfilm ]
  • 2,808 23 13 January, 2020
  • • you haunt me.
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both my books are available worldwide. link in bio 🪐
  • • you haunt me.
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    both my books are available worldwide. link in bio 🪐
  • 2,690 35 20 January, 2020

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  • A gentle reminder from my bestselling book: Words Unspoken 🙏
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    🌿Thank you for reading my work and buying my books.🍃Words Unspoken {a 270 page book on the power of surviving, flourishing and becoming after having been shattered to pieces} and Unforgettable {a 224 page journey along the winding path of memory} are available for purchase through the link in my bio (Amazon), Target (online), Walmart (online), the Book Depository (with free worldwide delivery )🍃Words Unspoken and Unforgettable are also available through periplus in Indonesia and bookurve in Malaysia.🍃
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  • What does fun mean to you?
Me...this is what fun is to me, doing what I love.
#heartbreak

Go get it on gjaflaver now

Jay kolorz 😍😍😍😍🤩🤩🤩🤩
  • What does fun mean to you?
    Me...this is what fun is to me, doing what I love.
    #heartbreak

    Go get it on gjaflaver now

    Jay kolorz 😍😍😍😍🤩🤩🤩🤩
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  • April 14, 2015:
to my first love, 
I took you back for the first time.  I can’t remember what you said to me probably along the lines of, “I still love you, I never meant to hurt you, it was a mistake, it won’t happen again.” and everything in between. Your lips had been lined with the sweetest of honey and these beautiful words poured out catching me like a fly in a spider web. I had taken you back with no questions asked, you were my first boyfriend, my first love. How could I not? I adored you, I still do if i’m being honest. I let you take me to your bedroom that night, that was a mistake. I try not to relive this moment either, it was the first time I took a wrong turn in my love life. - our second “date” .
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#flowerytoxins
  • April 14, 2015:
    to my first love,
    I took you back for the first time. I can’t remember what you said to me probably along the lines of, “I still love you, I never meant to hurt you, it was a mistake, it won’t happen again.” and everything in between. Your lips had been lined with the sweetest of honey and these beautiful words poured out catching me like a fly in a spider web. I had taken you back with no questions asked, you were my first boyfriend, my first love. How could I not? I adored you, I still do if i’m being honest. I let you take me to your bedroom that night, that was a mistake. I try not to relive this moment either, it was the first time I took a wrong turn in my love life. - our second “date” .
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    #flowerytoxins
  • 6 1 1 hour ago
  • An Example of Agony, Fear and Pain in a Sentient Being. 💔

Reposted From @belinda_vegan 🌱
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A sentient animal is one for whom feelings matter.
Sentience is about the inner life of an animal, and a sentient animal has capacity to suffer fear, pain or distress as well as a sense of well-being. Evidence that fish are sentient has been sufficient to achieve international recognition that their lives matters.
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Pain, fear and stress are likely to be experienced by fish in similar ways as in tetrapods. (amphibians, reptiles, birds and mammals).
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Stop paying for this cruelty. Without your demand it would not exist!
#belinda_vegan
EMBRACE VEGANISM 🌱
www. Challenge 22.com
Courtesy of @mk_macabre
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Repost from @sharkgirlmadison 
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So here is some background to this footage. It’s out of focus a little because I was standing so close. I was filming the blood on the floor of the boat when I felt the shark move against my leg.
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I then when to place my hand on her, not sure why we do this, perhaps just our awkward human way of comforting. That’s when I saw her eye move and realized she was still alive.
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The fishermen told me to get back and be careful, I guess they sometimes fight back and thrash around and they didn’t want the shark to hurt me. But I wanted to get a shot of it for the reason we always talk about the eyes of a dolphin or a whale, but sharks are designed by evolution to be intimidating, to effect the movements of their prey... so I wanted to show you the one rare time the eye shows fear and pain.
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So you know their capable of it, and your opinions of them need to change now, their life depends on it. Captured aboard the last fishing expedition of an artisanal vessel that now works for, during some of the most difficult weeks of my life @projecthiu 
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#fish #seafood #seafoodlover #nomnom #sorry #heartbreak #prolife #vegan #veganactivism #seeme #boating #fishfeelpain #foodgasm #natgeo #fishing #sharks #ocean #animalrights #vegansofinstagram #vegansofig #innthenow #knowledgeispower #discrimination #injustice #sharkfishing  #animals #animalsofig
  • An Example of Agony, Fear and Pain in a Sentient Being. 💔

    Reposted From @belinda_vegan 🌱
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    A sentient animal is one for whom feelings matter.
    Sentience is about the inner life of an animal, and a sentient animal has capacity to suffer fear, pain or distress as well as a sense of well-being. Evidence that fish are sentient has been sufficient to achieve international recognition that their lives matters.
    _
    Pain, fear and stress are likely to be experienced by fish in similar ways as in tetrapods. (amphibians, reptiles, birds and mammals).
    _
    Stop paying for this cruelty. Without your demand it would not exist!
    #belinda_vegan
    EMBRACE VEGANISM 🌱
    www. Challenge 22.com
    Courtesy of @mk_macabre
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    Repost from @sharkgirlmadison
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    So here is some background to this footage. It’s out of focus a little because I was standing so close. I was filming the blood on the floor of the boat when I felt the shark move against my leg.
    _
    I then when to place my hand on her, not sure why we do this, perhaps just our awkward human way of comforting. That’s when I saw her eye move and realized she was still alive.
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    The fishermen told me to get back and be careful, I guess they sometimes fight back and thrash around and they didn’t want the shark to hurt me. But I wanted to get a shot of it for the reason we always talk about the eyes of a dolphin or a whale, but sharks are designed by evolution to be intimidating, to effect the movements of their prey... so I wanted to show you the one rare time the eye shows fear and pain.
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    So you know their capable of it, and your opinions of them need to change now, their life depends on it. Captured aboard the last fishing expedition of an artisanal vessel that now works for, during some of the most difficult weeks of my life @projecthiu
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    #fish #seafood #seafoodlover #nomnom #sorry #heartbreak #prolife #vegan #veganactivism #seeme #boating #fishfeelpain #foodgasm #natgeo #fishing #sharks #ocean #animalrights #vegansofinstagram #vegansofig #innthenow #knowledgeispower #discrimination #injustice #sharkfishing #animals #animalsofig
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After being away traveling Africa for a month I literally underwent the most soul nourishing awakening I have ever had. I experienced so much shifts & growth & gained so much more insight & awareness into how I was currently living my life. I realised I hadn’t been living life true to me, I hadn’t been tuning in & listening to my hearts desires & I hadn’t been making myself a priority in my own damn life.
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“From this experience in less than 24hours of arriving back in New Zealand I made the heart breaking decision to end my 7 year relationship with my best friend. A person I called home, a person that witnessed 20 year old me become the women I am Today & the person who I shared many of my life experiences with. To say it was hard is an understatement, it was f*cking gut wrenching to break the heart of someone who loves & cares about you so much. To break the heart of someone who you still have so much love for & who you care for so deeply is the worse feeling EVER but I knew deep in my being that this was something I needed to do for myself & for the first time ever it was time to put myself first”.
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This was literally one of the most hardest decisions I have ever had to make in my life & some people may think im f*cking crazy & some people may think i’m having some crazy quarter life crisis 🤦🏼‍♀️ but this is something I had to do for me & for the first time ever I am listening to my hearts calling & making ME my number one priority ♥️ I share all with you in my recent blog post from the journey to how I got here, all the emotions, doubts, questions & most important my why.

FULL BLOG POST IN BIO 💫
  • Yesterday I opened up & shared with you all what has been currently happening in my life. How the New Year hadn’t started how I ever imagined it & how my life was literally about to change from what I had known it to be. FOREVER.

    After being away traveling Africa for a month I literally underwent the most soul nourishing awakening I have ever had. I experienced so much shifts & growth & gained so much more insight & awareness into how I was currently living my life. I realised I hadn’t been living life true to me, I hadn’t been tuning in & listening to my hearts desires & I hadn’t been making myself a priority in my own damn life.
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    “From this experience in less than 24hours of arriving back in New Zealand I made the heart breaking decision to end my 7 year relationship with my best friend. A person I called home, a person that witnessed 20 year old me become the women I am Today & the person who I shared many of my life experiences with. To say it was hard is an understatement, it was f*cking gut wrenching to break the heart of someone who loves & cares about you so much. To break the heart of someone who you still have so much love for & who you care for so deeply is the worse feeling EVER but I knew deep in my being that this was something I needed to do for myself & for the first time ever it was time to put myself first”.
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    This was literally one of the most hardest decisions I have ever had to make in my life & some people may think im f*cking crazy & some people may think i’m having some crazy quarter life crisis 🤦🏼‍♀️ but this is something I had to do for me & for the first time ever I am listening to my hearts calling & making ME my number one priority ♥️ I share all with you in my recent blog post from the journey to how I got here, all the emotions, doubts, questions & most important my why.

    FULL BLOG POST IN BIO 💫
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Perhaps you feel that everything as you have known it is falling apart, unexpected changes and turmoil, when you trying the new yoga pose, you feel that you don't have control over a situation. .
“I can’t do this! “

There is nothing in this world that can trouble you more than your own thoughts. 
Change your attitude and be positive, look inward for your heart's true strength and self-belief and you will reap great rewards. .
Now, I made it and next time I will be better! .
Want it? Go for it🙏🏻💕
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    Perhaps you feel that everything as you have known it is falling apart, unexpected changes and turmoil, when you trying the new yoga pose, you feel that you don't have control over a situation. .
    “I can’t do this! “

    There is nothing in this world that can trouble you more than your own thoughts.
    Change your attitude and be positive, look inward for your heart's true strength and self-belief and you will reap great rewards. .
    Now, I made it and next time I will be better! .
    Want it? Go for it🙏🏻💕
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  • 181 54 16 January, 2020