The halfway. We are here in this middle, middle what? Civility? Cordiality? We speak when necessary never more, not about the things that need to be said. The life changing horizons we’ve swept so deep - would take an apocalypse to unearth them. We don’t have that kind of time - it would make it easier though. Not a life ending event, but for it to surface without having to say the words. Can’t you read my mind? I really am weak, the courage to say something to hurt you I don’t have. It doesn’t matter that you have spent a lifetime disregarding me. I care for you and I can’t change that - I wish I could be more selfish. There’s a fear that stops me, conscience perhaps.. the buzzing in my ear that says you can’t be the same. .
We all worry about our relationships, maybe with our partner, our friends, our family, and others because we don't want to lose them. Just because we are afraid about being left alone, we make sure we keep them healthy, growing and alive.
But how often do we think and worry about the relationship with ourselves? How often you are concerned about the feelings, the things that are within yourself?
How often do you stand in front of the mirror and pat yourself saying “ I am proud of you for whatever you are and you are going to be or simply because you are still alive and breathing”? How often do you sit with yourself and observe the sync of your breaths, the rhythm of your heart? How often do you feel yourself?
The problem is we have been mistaken about the two words, “self-love” and “ selfish”. There is is a huge difference between them but unfortunately, Never did we realize when did the words self-love and self-introspection turned to be selfish, and being alone was defined for loneliness.
Today 20% of us are lonely, in depression or suffering from some of the other physiological problems, and desire to be loved and rest 80% are surrounded by people but are still alone and seeking love.
But, Everything starts with “you”. Every relationship that exists right now in your life will eventually come to a halt after some years or even you may take a break from them but, how would you take a break from yourself. The only relationship that will last till the end is the one you have with your soul. Love yourself as for no one will do that more purely.
Talk to yourself even if it's for just 5 mins from the day or make yourself a good coffee, appreciate yourself often and buy yourself little rewards. You have a responsibility towards your soul. Be grateful to the universe for whatever it's unfolding for you every minute. And above all be grateful that you are breathing. Live for yourself first and then for others.
As for I believe, in order to spread the love, you need to love yourself first.
In order to live your life for others, start living for yourself first.
Remember, Peace of mind should be the priority. .
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