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  • Perspectives 💚💜 Via @spiritualmovement⁣
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  • Perspectives 💚💜 Via @spiritualmovement
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    Want to know more? Go to link in bio, where you can read more about this subject, plus download Free Guided Meditations and eBooks on love and relationships. Cassady x 🙏 ❤ ⁣
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  • 143 5 1 hour ago
  • ❌A NICE GUY ISN’T THE SAME AS A GOOD MAN❌ You need to know the difference.
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When I first realized that I had a pattern of being attracted to and attracting men that were emotionally unavailable (to me) I tried to reverse the pattern. I thought, maybe I’ll just stop dating jerks and I’ll go out with really nice guys instead and that’ll be that. 💁🏽‍♀️
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So I did.🤦🏽‍♀️
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I went out with self-proclaimed nice guys and I didn’t feel anything.  I mean, not that I didn’t feel anything. More like, I didn’t feel anything good. Being with a nice guy did not create some seismic shift in my universe where I all of a sudden recognized the error of my ways and resolved to never date a jerk again because I realized I deserved to be treated nicely and I’d be treated nicely by nice guys.
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It was almost the opposite. Being with nice guys didn’t make me want nice guys — it turned me off from nice guys and made me want jerks and I started to think there was something seriously wrong with me.
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I mean there was something wrong with wanting the jerks. But it actually made sense that I didn’t like the nice guys…
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A nice guy isn’t the same as a good man and although we can often feel this intuitively, it can be hard to put your finger on and actually *get* conceptually. Turns out, nice guys are jerks with suppressed anger, less charm, and better manners (at first).😳
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A nice guy is a man who’s deep in his victimhood. He’s entitled and frustrated that the chips haven’t fallen in his favor as much as he thinks they should have. He covers up that there’s seething anger a quarter of an inch below the surface niceness, but you can feel the anger and desperation lurking beneath.🤬😤😡
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The energy is palpable but his Nice Guy Act creates confusion: you meet him and he’s “such a nice guy” it feels like you *should* give him more of a chance. And it’s not just that you’re not attracted to him (although you’re not) it’s that you don’t feel at ease.😕
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  • ❌A NICE GUY ISN’T THE SAME AS A GOOD MAN❌ You need to know the difference.
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    When I first realized that I had a pattern of being attracted to and attracting men that were emotionally unavailable (to me) I tried to reverse the pattern. I thought, maybe I’ll just stop dating jerks and I’ll go out with really nice guys instead and that’ll be that. 💁🏽‍♀️
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    So I did.🤦🏽‍♀️
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    I went out with self-proclaimed nice guys and I didn’t feel anything.  I mean, not that I didn’t feel anything. More like, I didn’t feel anything good. Being with a nice guy did not create some seismic shift in my universe where I all of a sudden recognized the error of my ways and resolved to never date a jerk again because I realized I deserved to be treated nicely and I’d be treated nicely by nice guys.
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It was almost the opposite. Being with nice guys didn’t make me want nice guys — it turned me off from nice guys and made me want jerks and I started to think there was something seriously wrong with me.
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    I mean there was something wrong with wanting the jerks. But it actually made sense that I didn’t like the nice guys…
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    A nice guy isn’t the same as a good man and although we can often feel this intuitively, it can be hard to put your finger on and actually *get* conceptually. Turns out, nice guys are jerks with suppressed anger, less charm, and better manners (at first).😳
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    A nice guy is a man who’s deep in his victimhood. He’s entitled and frustrated that the chips haven’t fallen in his favor as much as he thinks they should have. He covers up that there’s seething anger a quarter of an inch below the surface niceness, but you can feel the anger and desperation lurking beneath.🤬😤😡
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    The energy is palpable but his Nice Guy Act creates confusion: you meet him and he’s “such a nice guy” it feels like you *should* give him more of a chance. And it’s not just that you’re not attracted to him (although you’re not) it’s that you don’t feel at ease.😕
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  • 642 60 9 April, 2019
  • Exactly 3 years ago today I met this guy in an elevator at the @carlton_hotel in Tel Aviv. It was not a romantic connection but there was immediate soul recognition. .

I was attached to a story I created that when I met my life partner I would know it instantly- the old “love at first sight” story. This was not that. It was something else.
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We both had mountains of stories to work through before we could actually see each other clearly and recognize what we have become.
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3 years later I am so inspired by the growth we have fueled in each other and our relationship is a daily reminder that attaching to stories about how I think the things in my life should happen just gets in my way. .

If you are trying to create partnership in your life, take a moment today and notice if you have stories or expectations that are getting in your way. And the next time you’re in an elevator, put your phone down and notice who’s beside you ... it just may be your person. Xoxo @paulmkuhn ❤️
📷 x @ashleydrody 
#sevensenses #love #experiencesevensenses
  • Exactly 3 years ago today I met this guy in an elevator at the @carlton_hotel in Tel Aviv. It was not a romantic connection but there was immediate soul recognition. .

    I was attached to a story I created that when I met my life partner I would know it instantly- the old “love at first sight” story. This was not that. It was something else.
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    We both had mountains of stories to work through before we could actually see each other clearly and recognize what we have become.
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    3 years later I am so inspired by the growth we have fueled in each other and our relationship is a daily reminder that attaching to stories about how I think the things in my life should happen just gets in my way. .

    If you are trying to create partnership in your life, take a moment today and notice if you have stories or expectations that are getting in your way. And the next time you’re in an elevator, put your phone down and notice who’s beside you ... it just may be your person. Xoxo @paulmkuhn ❤️
    📷 x @ashleydrody
    #sevensenses #love #experiencesevensenses
  • 846 75 11 April, 2019
  • Ladies who appreciate these romantic gestures still exist. So fellas don’t lose hope. We are out here waiting to appreciate you. 
#lovegoals #couplegoals❤
  • Ladies who appreciate these romantic gestures still exist. So fellas don’t lose hope. We are out here waiting to appreciate you.
    #lovegoals #couplegoals
  • 1,035 80 19 April, 2019
  • There are certain signs that let you know early on➞ 🚩THIS IS NOT GOING ANYWHERE.
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When you see these 5️⃣ signs… it’s time to RUN🏃‍♀️:
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1️⃣He never makes actual plans with you. It’s always a last minute “Hey, let’s hang out.”
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2️⃣You make an effort to see him around HIS schedule… but he’s NOT making effort to see you around YOUR schedule.
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3️⃣He acts likes he’s single in public.
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4️⃣You aren’t ever invited to be around his friends.
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5️⃣Things get awkward when you talk about “the relationship.” You want to ask “Where’s this going?” but you know if you do… he will just avoid and change the topic.
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👉Your challenge➞ BELIEVE who he is when he SHOWS you!
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I know it’s hard once emotions are involved…but the longer you stay involved just sets your heart up for even more devastation.💔
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((I’m going LIVE tonight so we can dive into this more— or anything else for that matter.))
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💥Asking for what YOU are willing to give in a relationship is 👏NOT👏ASKING👏FOR👏TOO👏MUCH!❤️
  • There are certain signs that let you know early on➞ 🚩THIS IS NOT GOING ANYWHERE.
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    When you see these 5️⃣ signs… it’s time to RUN🏃‍♀️:
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    1️⃣He never makes actual plans with you. It’s always a last minute “Hey, let’s hang out.”
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    2️⃣You make an effort to see him around HIS schedule… but he’s NOT making effort to see you around YOUR schedule.
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    3️⃣He acts likes he’s single in public.
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    4️⃣You aren’t ever invited to be around his friends.
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    5️⃣Things get awkward when you talk about “the relationship.” You want to ask “Where’s this going?” but you know if you do… he will just avoid and change the topic.
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    👉Your challenge➞ BELIEVE who he is when he SHOWS you!
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    I know it’s hard once emotions are involved…but the longer you stay involved just sets your heart up for even more devastation.💔
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    ((I’m going LIVE tonight so we can dive into this more— or anything else for that matter.))
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    💥Asking for what YOU are willing to give in a relationship is 👏NOT👏ASKING👏FOR👏TOO👏MUCH!❤️
  • 796 36 16 April, 2019

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  • Perspectives 💚💜 Via @spiritualmovement⁣
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Want to know more? Go to link in bio, where you can read more about this subject, plus download Free Guided Meditations and eBooks on love and relationships. Cassady x 🙏 ❤ ⁣
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  • Perspectives 💚💜 Via @spiritualmovement
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    .⁣
    Want to know more? Go to link in bio, where you can read more about this subject, plus download Free Guided Meditations and eBooks on love and relationships. Cassady x 🙏 ❤ ⁣
    ⁣ ⁣
  • 143 5 1 hour ago
  • If he loves you, he will do this 💗Watch my full-length videos on YouTube. Just search for 'Lape Soetan' on YouTube to find them.
  • If he loves you, he will do this 💗Watch my full-length videos on YouTube. Just search for 'Lape Soetan' on YouTube to find them.
  • 14 3 2 hours ago
  • WHY YOU REALLY DON’T HAVE ENOUGH TIME TO DO ALL THE THINGS! 
Yes... high achieving woman... I am talking to you! 
So let me give you the low down of what this ‘never enough time’ thing is REALLY about... Because it is a vicious cycle and time trap that so many women get sucked into.

When people say to me 'I don't have time to do the work on myself, when I have done this *thing* then I will have more time'. I can see EXACTLY what's underneath it (I can totally see this in myself when I say it too by the way!) Because I've been a chronic overfunctioner most of my life. 
I have over-committed to things, overgiven, people pleased, said 'yes' when I wanted to say 'no', rescued people, martyred myself to meet other people's wants and needs, mothered and provided for ex-partners and over worked myself to succeed to prove my worth. 
Whilst also often procrastinating, self-sabotaging and making excuses for why I can’t or don’t have the things I want yet. 
I have then become distracted and unfocused and numbed out on reality TV or social media. 
Which I have then berated myself for because I know I could have been using that time to do the work that is going to actually give me all the things I want! 
And then all of this becomes a perpetual cycle and time goes on until eventually something painful has had to happen or some desperation point where I have had no choice but to do the freaking work! 
So when someone comes to me and says 'I want to do this, but I don't have time right now'... I say 'So let's clear your blocks that are actually making you overfunction, to get you out of this vicious cycle.

Because underneath all of this are just these ‘over doing’ roles you have unconsciously created to keep you safe.

When you are functioning from these roles you are often taking action that is not aligned with your soul’s desires... and ending up exhausted and unfulfilled. 
Your soul knows what it wants and knows what it needs to do, but it's the roles that your subconscious mind has created that are blocking you from actually taking action on the things that are MOST SOUL ALIGNED. 
CONTINUED IN COMMENTS
  • WHY YOU REALLY DON’T HAVE ENOUGH TIME TO DO ALL THE THINGS!
    Yes... high achieving woman... I am talking to you!
    So let me give you the low down of what this ‘never enough time’ thing is REALLY about... Because it is a vicious cycle and time trap that so many women get sucked into.

    When people say to me 'I don't have time to do the work on myself, when I have done this *thing* then I will have more time'. I can see EXACTLY what's underneath it (I can totally see this in myself when I say it too by the way!) Because I've been a chronic overfunctioner most of my life.
    I have over-committed to things, overgiven, people pleased, said 'yes' when I wanted to say 'no', rescued people, martyred myself to meet other people's wants and needs, mothered and provided for ex-partners and over worked myself to succeed to prove my worth.
    Whilst also often procrastinating, self-sabotaging and making excuses for why I can’t or don’t have the things I want yet.
    I have then become distracted and unfocused and numbed out on reality TV or social media.
    Which I have then berated myself for because I know I could have been using that time to do the work that is going to actually give me all the things I want!
    And then all of this becomes a perpetual cycle and time goes on until eventually something painful has had to happen or some desperation point where I have had no choice but to do the freaking work!
    So when someone comes to me and says 'I want to do this, but I don't have time right now'... I say 'So let's clear your blocks that are actually making you overfunction, to get you out of this vicious cycle.

    Because underneath all of this are just these ‘over doing’ roles you have unconsciously created to keep you safe.

    When you are functioning from these roles you are often taking action that is not aligned with your soul’s desires... and ending up exhausted and unfulfilled.
    Your soul knows what it wants and knows what it needs to do, but it's the roles that your subconscious mind has created that are blocking you from actually taking action on the things that are MOST SOUL ALIGNED.
    CONTINUED IN COMMENTS
  • 22 2 2 hours ago
  • „Das Leben ist zu kurz!“ – dieser oft wiederholte Satz ist inzwischen zum Klischee geworden, doch er stimmt! Das Leben ist zu kurz um unglücklich vor sich hin zu leben und aus- bzw. durchzuhalten. Es ist zu kurz um sich selber ständig zurück zu nehmen. Denn das ist nicht nur sinnlos sondern auch schmerzhaft!“ (Seth Godin)
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Warum sprechen wir bei der Geburt eines Kindes vom Wunder des Lebens, wenn wir uns dann mit einem unglücklichen oder mittelmässigen Leben zufriedengeben? Wann genau haben wir das Wunder in unserem Leben aus den Augen verloren?
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Als Kind sagt uns jeder, wenn wir groß sind, können wir alles machen, haben und sein, was wir nur wollen. Und? Machst, hast und bist Du als Erwachsener alles, was Du nur wolltest? Oder hast Du alles was Du nur wolltest irgendwann als „sich mit weniger zufrieden geben“ definiert? (aus dem Buch MIracle Morning von Hal Elrod)
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Lebst Du Dein volles Potential oder nimmst Du Dich immer noch zurück? Hm? Wie sieht es aus? Nutzt Du die Frühlings- Oster – Neubeginn Energie für Dich? Alles ist möglich. Du hast vielleicht nur verlernt oder es noch nie probiert wie es geht. Hast Deinen Selbstwert zurück genommen und Dich ständig klein gemacht. Hast vieles getan um geliebt zu werden... das ist aber alles Stress... für Dich, für Deinen Geist, für Deinen Körper und hat mit „Flow“ nix zu tun. Hast Du gewusst, dass wenn Du Dich 5min am Tag ärgerst, Dein Körper 6h!!!! braucht um das „Gift“ des Ärgers wieder abzubauen? Krass oder? Also nimm es für Dich in die Hand. Komm in Deinen Selbstwert, lernen mit Deinen Ängsten und Blockaden zu tanzen und sie so zu besiegen, lerne zu Dir zu stehen und lerne überhaupt mal was Dich ausmacht, wer Du bist und warum Du so einzigartig bist! Das alles ist kein Hexenwerk sondern ist relativ einfach umsetzbar.
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Wenn Du aktiv etwas tun willst, dann melde Dich gerne bei mir. Noch heute gibt es den Osterrabatt von 8Wochen50 und Du sparst 50 Euro auf das 8 Wochen Online Coaching, das Dein Leben in genau dieser Weise verändern kann. Oder komm gerne einfach auf ein kostenfreies Erstberatungsgespräch zu mir wo ich Dir schon sagen kann was Du tun kannst. Alle Online Programme findest Du unter www.womencoach.eu
  • „Das Leben ist zu kurz!“ – dieser oft wiederholte Satz ist inzwischen zum Klischee geworden, doch er stimmt! Das Leben ist zu kurz um unglücklich vor sich hin zu leben und aus- bzw. durchzuhalten. Es ist zu kurz um sich selber ständig zurück zu nehmen. Denn das ist nicht nur sinnlos sondern auch schmerzhaft!“ (Seth Godin)
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    Warum sprechen wir bei der Geburt eines Kindes vom Wunder des Lebens, wenn wir uns dann mit einem unglücklichen oder mittelmässigen Leben zufriedengeben? Wann genau haben wir das Wunder in unserem Leben aus den Augen verloren?
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    Als Kind sagt uns jeder, wenn wir groß sind, können wir alles machen, haben und sein, was wir nur wollen. Und? Machst, hast und bist Du als Erwachsener alles, was Du nur wolltest? Oder hast Du alles was Du nur wolltest irgendwann als „sich mit weniger zufrieden geben“ definiert? (aus dem Buch MIracle Morning von Hal Elrod)
    .
    Lebst Du Dein volles Potential oder nimmst Du Dich immer noch zurück? Hm? Wie sieht es aus? Nutzt Du die Frühlings- Oster – Neubeginn Energie für Dich? Alles ist möglich. Du hast vielleicht nur verlernt oder es noch nie probiert wie es geht. Hast Deinen Selbstwert zurück genommen und Dich ständig klein gemacht. Hast vieles getan um geliebt zu werden... das ist aber alles Stress... für Dich, für Deinen Geist, für Deinen Körper und hat mit „Flow“ nix zu tun. Hast Du gewusst, dass wenn Du Dich 5min am Tag ärgerst, Dein Körper 6h!!!! braucht um das „Gift“ des Ärgers wieder abzubauen? Krass oder? Also nimm es für Dich in die Hand. Komm in Deinen Selbstwert, lernen mit Deinen Ängsten und Blockaden zu tanzen und sie so zu besiegen, lerne zu Dir zu stehen und lerne überhaupt mal was Dich ausmacht, wer Du bist und warum Du so einzigartig bist! Das alles ist kein Hexenwerk sondern ist relativ einfach umsetzbar.
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    Wenn Du aktiv etwas tun willst, dann melde Dich gerne bei mir. Noch heute gibt es den Osterrabatt von 8Wochen50 und Du sparst 50 Euro auf das 8 Wochen Online Coaching, das Dein Leben in genau dieser Weise verändern kann. Oder komm gerne einfach auf ein kostenfreies Erstberatungsgespräch zu mir wo ich Dir schon sagen kann was Du tun kannst. Alle Online Programme findest Du unter www.womencoach.eu
  • 25 2 3 hours ago
  • ➡️ AUGURI DI BUONA PASQUA 🐣 .
Un augurio affettuoso affinché la pace e la pura gioia che la Pasqua dona al cuore restino ad illuminare ogni giorno della vostra vita.
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@lifestylecoachmk
  • ➡️ AUGURI DI BUONA PASQUA 🐣 .
    Un augurio affettuoso affinché la pace e la pura gioia che la Pasqua dona al cuore restino ad illuminare ogni giorno della vostra vita.
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    @lifestylecoachmk
  • 56 12 6 hours ago
  • This woman I love. Love at first sight kind of love. Buddies for life we call each other. We were drawn together like absolute magnets at our leadership training never having ever met before that moment. Sister souls. Mirror hearts. Deep understanding. But what she gives this world that I could never ever, and respect her for more than words can convey because of it, is transform the darkest situations into the sweetest richest experiences. Thank you @elibeckerluv for reminding me of the sweetness and goodness of life. Love you for life. 🦄✨🎉 #happybirthday #buddiesforlife #thisturnedonlife
  • This woman I love. Love at first sight kind of love. Buddies for life we call each other. We were drawn together like absolute magnets at our leadership training never having ever met before that moment. Sister souls. Mirror hearts. Deep understanding. But what she gives this world that I could never ever, and respect her for more than words can convey because of it, is transform the darkest situations into the sweetest richest experiences. Thank you @elibeckerluv for reminding me of the sweetness and goodness of life. Love you for life. 🦄✨🎉 #happybirthday #buddiesforlife #thisturnedonlife
  • 25 1 7 hours ago
  • So many people say they want to connect deeply with others or their partners and yet they carry a lot of emotional wounds...⁣
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Emotional wounds block your heart and therefore until you process and release these wounds you will never be able to connect deeply to another soul or even with yourself.⁣
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You will only be able to connect heart to heart to the depth you have gone on your inner journey. ⁣
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#connect
  • So many people say they want to connect deeply with others or their partners and yet they carry a lot of emotional wounds...⁣

    Emotional wounds block your heart and therefore until you process and release these wounds you will never be able to connect deeply to another soul or even with yourself.⁣

    You will only be able to connect heart to heart to the depth you have gone on your inner journey. ⁣

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    #connect
  • 35 5 8 hours ago
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  • Someone posted this pic and asked: 1) At what age do you stop kissing your parents on the mouth? 2) Have you ever dated an adult who still kisses their parents on the lips? Me: I've never kissed either parent on the lips. I don't have children, but I don't imagine kissing them on the lips. I know I am a germaphobe, but I am thinking that if I'm married, how can I be intimate with my husband at night and then kiss my children in the morning? That's just gross! Adult germs need to stay with adults, in my opinion. It's fine for you, but not me and my household. I would think it odd if I dated a man who still kissed his parents on the lips. #kissing #love #RelationshipGoals #parenting #relationships #matchmaker #datingadvice #datingcoach #lovecoach #sanfrancisco
  • Someone posted this pic and asked: 1) At what age do you stop kissing your parents on the mouth? 2) Have you ever dated an adult who still kisses their parents on the lips? Me: I've never kissed either parent on the lips. I don't have children, but I don't imagine kissing them on the lips. I know I am a germaphobe, but I am thinking that if I'm married, how can I be intimate with my husband at night and then kiss my children in the morning? That's just gross! Adult germs need to stay with adults, in my opinion. It's fine for you, but not me and my household. I would think it odd if I dated a man who still kissed his parents on the lips. #kissing #love #RelationshipGoals #parenting #relationships #matchmaker #datingadvice #datingcoach #lovecoach #sanfrancisco
  • 13 2 10 hours ago
  • One month after I met Adam, we started talking regularly.
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1 month after that, Adam asked me if I'd be his girlfriend and date him exclusively.
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3 months after that he asked me if I'd marry him.
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1 month after that I did.
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Here's the thing, I'd been in several relationships where men didn't want to claim me or weren't sure if they wanted me for a lifetime.
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With Adam, I never had to guess if he loved me or if he wanted me. He always made it known.
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Real talk alert: That's the way it should be!
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You shouldn't have to beg someone to love you, choose you or claim you.
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If you do, I'm here to tell you that it's time to let that junk go.
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Not only do you deserve more, you can HAVE more.
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Just in case you needed the reminder. ❤️❤️❤️
  • One month after I met Adam, we started talking regularly.

    1 month after that, Adam asked me if I'd be his girlfriend and date him exclusively.

    3 months after that he asked me if I'd marry him.

    1 month after that I did.

    Here's the thing, I'd been in several relationships where men didn't want to claim me or weren't sure if they wanted me for a lifetime.

    With Adam, I never had to guess if he loved me or if he wanted me. He always made it known.

    Real talk alert: That's the way it should be!

    You shouldn't have to beg someone to love you, choose you or claim you.

    If you do, I'm here to tell you that it's time to let that junk go.

    Not only do you deserve more, you can HAVE more.

    Just in case you needed the reminder. ❤️❤️❤️
  • 49 9 11 hours ago
  • If you want to manifest love, then you’ll ALWAYS find what you’re looking for... I know, you’ve been hurt, disappointed, deceived... in the past.

So it’s hard not to cloud the present with that fear, doubt, and anxiety. 
Always looking over your shoulder for red flags - because there’s bound to be one. 
But here’s the issue with that: you get what you focus on. Where your focus goes, that’s where you create energy. 
So, if you’re focused on red flags and what could go wrong, then you’re becoming an energetic match for dates that will mirror your own beliefs back to you... red flags and what could go wrong. 
That’s why women find themselves in this cycle of dating all of the wrong guys - they’re looking for them. (Even though yes, I know, that’s not the intention). You’ll always find what you’re looking for with manifestation. It’s law (just like gravity). But, instead of changing their mindset, I see women who give up on dating because they’re tired of what they’re seeing. 
The idea of another dead end date sounds as fun as a trip to the dentist. 
No thanks. 
But what if that’s the EXACT moment when the very man you desire becomes single and is looking for YOU?

Then someone else meets him because you’ve been looking for all of the wrong things, finding them, then getting off of the dating playing field because you’re tired of it. 
That’s a surefire way to lose at love. 
You have to end that cycle and shift your mindset if you really desire to manifest and maintain love once and for all 💖 link in bio.
  • If you want to manifest love, then you’ll ALWAYS find what you’re looking for... I know, you’ve been hurt, disappointed, deceived... in the past.

    So it’s hard not to cloud the present with that fear, doubt, and anxiety.
    Always looking over your shoulder for red flags - because there’s bound to be one.
    But here’s the issue with that: you get what you focus on. Where your focus goes, that’s where you create energy.
    So, if you’re focused on red flags and what could go wrong, then you’re becoming an energetic match for dates that will mirror your own beliefs back to you... red flags and what could go wrong.
    That’s why women find themselves in this cycle of dating all of the wrong guys - they’re looking for them. (Even though yes, I know, that’s not the intention). You’ll always find what you’re looking for with manifestation. It’s law (just like gravity). But, instead of changing their mindset, I see women who give up on dating because they’re tired of what they’re seeing.
    The idea of another dead end date sounds as fun as a trip to the dentist.
    No thanks.
    But what if that’s the EXACT moment when the very man you desire becomes single and is looking for YOU?

    Then someone else meets him because you’ve been looking for all of the wrong things, finding them, then getting off of the dating playing field because you’re tired of it.
    That’s a surefire way to lose at love.
    You have to end that cycle and shift your mindset if you really desire to manifest and maintain love once and for all 💖 link in bio.
  • 25 5 11 hours ago
  • I used to think that being loving meant being sugary sweet and accommodating. 
Only problem is...I’m not that. 
My brand of love is fierce and powerful. 
My version of love is selfish, not selfless. 
Honoring me first above all because that’s the only way love really works. 
I know my boundaries. I know my worth. 
And I know that I can love you and even not judge you, but I don’t have to let you close into my world unless you show yourself to be a person who can honor me precisely because you’ve already done the work to honor yourself. 
High standards in life. High standards in love. 
Give me an emoji in the comments if you agree. 💋
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  • I used to think that being loving meant being sugary sweet and accommodating.
    Only problem is...I’m not that.
    My brand of love is fierce and powerful.
    My version of love is selfish, not selfless.
    Honoring me first above all because that’s the only way love really works.
    I know my boundaries. I know my worth.
    And I know that I can love you and even not judge you, but I don’t have to let you close into my world unless you show yourself to be a person who can honor me precisely because you’ve already done the work to honor yourself.
    High standards in life. High standards in love.
    Give me an emoji in the comments if you agree. 💋
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  • 300 21 12 hours ago
  • Do you smoke weed, marijuana, greens, reefer? Did you get high today? I wish you a sexy 420 at 4:20 west coast time and all over the world!. What's your favorite weed song, movie, memory? This week I will be 42, are you ready to celebrate a week of 420? Who loves an excellent joint, a packed bowl, CBD lotion, a capsule, a dab, a drink, a tasty treat? What is your choice when you want to get high, be in the moment and connect and learn about yourself?
I love weed, but we also need to educate ourselves on how to enjoy it and start small. That is with anything even alcohol and or a new relationship. Are you interested in trying an edible?  I recommend trying only 2 mg — not 20 two. Most edibles are delectable, and you will want more. Do not taste anymore especially your first time. Please share your good, bad, fun, sad, thrilling weed experiences and stories below. Here are a few of my favorite reasons why I love weed and weed loves me. Do you get more focused? Do you listen and feel alive? Do you slow down and enjoy the moment? Does your creative side come out? Do you feel happy, horny, excited? Are you breathing enjoying each breath? Let's focus on your five senses while you are high. Are you ready to explore more vibrant and colorful ways of living? Start by paying attention to touch, taste, smell, sight, and sound. Right now my edible just kicked in, and I am going to smoke a bowl and watch the rest of Beyonce Homecoming on Netflix. How are you celebrating 420? Remember you are sexy, confident, smart, sassy and ready to live your highest version. You deserve it. Love you sexy ones, xoxo, DR @drresa #420 #smokeweedeveryday #confidencecoach #relationshipcoach #lovecoach #selflove #stopfostaandsesta #beyonce #marijuana #reefer #weed #cannabis #bong #joint #stoner #edibles #dab
  • Do you smoke weed, marijuana, greens, reefer? Did you get high today? I wish you a sexy 420 at 4:20 west coast time and all over the world!. What's your favorite weed song, movie, memory? This week I will be 42, are you ready to celebrate a week of 420? Who loves an excellent joint, a packed bowl, CBD lotion, a capsule, a dab, a drink, a tasty treat? What is your choice when you want to get high, be in the moment and connect and learn about yourself?
    I love weed, but we also need to educate ourselves on how to enjoy it and start small. That is with anything even alcohol and or a new relationship. Are you interested in trying an edible? I recommend trying only 2 mg — not 20 two. Most edibles are delectable, and you will want more. Do not taste anymore especially your first time. Please share your good, bad, fun, sad, thrilling weed experiences and stories below. Here are a few of my favorite reasons why I love weed and weed loves me. Do you get more focused? Do you listen and feel alive? Do you slow down and enjoy the moment? Does your creative side come out? Do you feel happy, horny, excited? Are you breathing enjoying each breath? Let's focus on your five senses while you are high. Are you ready to explore more vibrant and colorful ways of living? Start by paying attention to touch, taste, smell, sight, and sound. Right now my edible just kicked in, and I am going to smoke a bowl and watch the rest of Beyonce Homecoming on Netflix. How are you celebrating 420? Remember you are sexy, confident, smart, sassy and ready to live your highest version. You deserve it. Love you sexy ones, xoxo, DR @drresa #420 #smokeweedeveryday #confidencecoach #relationshipcoach #lovecoach #selflove #stopfostaandsesta #beyonce #marijuana #reefer #weed #cannabis #bong #joint #stoner #edibles #dab
  • 122 9 12 hours ago
  • Watch the rest on my YT channel. Dr. Patricia Shaw
  • Watch the rest on my YT channel. Dr. Patricia Shaw
  • 13 1 12 hours ago
  • Hello, Hello!
What’s up Instagram friend!
I just wanted to welcome you and introduce myself!🙋🏻‍♀️
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I’m Linda the relationship strategist, writer and founder of @MaximMarriage.

I’m also a wife of almost twenty five years (yeah, I know I don’t look that old. 😊😂😂😂) married to my best friend and a mom of two young teens who are always testing my limits. 🤦🏻‍♀️
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My husband calls me the hammer because I’m the one who straighten them up when they need to. 🤷🏻‍♀️
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Hey, someone has to keep the order! That’s what a parent does!🤷🏻‍♀️
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So he’s the good cop and I’m the bad cop. Whatever...
They still love me either way. No one like mommy. 😉
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We live in the sunshine state and yes we live the resort lifestyle. 😎 🙏🏼
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We are very practical and have an active life focused on what matters most to us, family. Making sure to be as present as possible and create life long memories with our two kids.

I created MaximMarriage three years ago to share with you my philosophies that has helped us along the journey of our marriage so that you can make your marriage stronger and achieve your happily ever after too. And to defy divorce if at all possible with love.

The real mission is to help as many couples succeed in their marriage so that they can live a life happy, free and in love together while raising strong confident children.

So if you like practical relationship strategies you are in the right place.

I’m looking forward to connecting with you and seeing you rock your marriage all the way to your forever after!

You can do it!💪🏼❤️
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So tell me, what’s the biggest thing you’ve learned about being in love that’s challenging you the most?
  • Hello, Hello!
    What’s up Instagram friend!
    I just wanted to welcome you and introduce myself!🙋🏻‍♀️
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    I’m Linda the relationship strategist, writer and founder of @MaximMarriage.

    I’m also a wife of almost twenty five years (yeah, I know I don’t look that old. 😊😂😂😂) married to my best friend and a mom of two young teens who are always testing my limits. 🤦🏻‍♀️
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    My husband calls me the hammer because I’m the one who straighten them up when they need to. 🤷🏻‍♀️
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    Hey, someone has to keep the order! That’s what a parent does!🤷🏻‍♀️
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    So he’s the good cop and I’m the bad cop. Whatever...
    They still love me either way. No one like mommy. 😉
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    We live in the sunshine state and yes we live the resort lifestyle. 😎 🙏🏼
    _
    We are very practical and have an active life focused on what matters most to us, family. Making sure to be as present as possible and create life long memories with our two kids.

    I created MaximMarriage three years ago to share with you my philosophies that has helped us along the journey of our marriage so that you can make your marriage stronger and achieve your happily ever after too. And to defy divorce if at all possible with love.

    The real mission is to help as many couples succeed in their marriage so that they can live a life happy, free and in love together while raising strong confident children.

    So if you like practical relationship strategies you are in the right place.

    I’m looking forward to connecting with you and seeing you rock your marriage all the way to your forever after!

    You can do it!💪🏼❤️
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    So tell me, what’s the biggest thing you’ve learned about being in love that’s challenging you the most?
  • 16 2 12 hours ago
  • 📢You guys!!!! I’ve known this gorgeous little nugget 😍 for 20 something years, and today I have the honor of announcing she is our newest CHAKTI yoga teacher. I can not wait for you guys to practice with her (I’ll keep you posted on her schedule)! Her energy is seriously a sweet gift to this universe. I love you so much @bethanycargle 🤗 Thank you for being a light and sharing all the CHAKTI Yoga love love love ❤️🤩💥
  • 📢You guys!!!! I’ve known this gorgeous little nugget 😍 for 20 something years, and today I have the honor of announcing she is our newest CHAKTI yoga teacher. I can not wait for you guys to practice with her (I’ll keep you posted on her schedule)! Her energy is seriously a sweet gift to this universe. I love you so much @bethanycargle 🤗 Thank you for being a light and sharing all the CHAKTI Yoga love love love ❤️🤩💥
  • 97 18 12 hours ago
  • @theangrytherapist wrote 4 qualities when finding a man who is "Marriage Material" ... I actually love what he wrote. He is talking about finding a man but this can also be used when looking for a girlfriend/wife. 
Read what he wrote below and also tell me what are somethings that you look for in a romantic partner:
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1.  Fire in his belly.  He has a passion for something.  A bone crushing drive to build and share his gifts.  If he hasn’t found his purpose(s) or know what they are, then his mission is to actively explore to find out.  He has a burning desire to make a dent in the world.  And it’s bigger than him.  If he is not determined to go somewhere, there will be no ride or journey.  Just a lot of sitting in front of the TV and dreaming with a dad bod.
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2.  He communicates.  On all levels.  His wants.  His feels.  His fears.  His dreams.  Without communication, it’s nearly impossible to build any kind of healthy sustainable relationship.  It is the soil for everything.  If he doesn’t have the ability to express himself, he will be doing life around you not with you and there will be lots of cuts on your feet from the eggshells.
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3.  He takes ownership.  If one never takes ownership for his actions, there is no growth or self awareness.  There is only a defensive boy refusing to grow up.  Without taking ownership, the fights will be one sided with blame and judgement and you feeling less than.  To hold a safe space, one has to have the ability to take ownership.  Ownership also means he takes care of himself and his own needs.
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4.  He has his own life and opinions.  Friends. Hobbies.  Favorite kind of Doritos.  His life doesn’t hang on yours.  He is his own person.  He hold your hand.  Not your leg.  Stands next to you.  Not behind or ahead.  He’s not living for you.  He’s living with you.
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#love #relationshipadvice #loveadvice #lovequotes #findinglove #onlinedating #dating #lovecoach #lovetherapist #theangrytherapist #loveandrelationships #relationships #dontsettle #findyoursoulmate #dealbreakers #❤
  • @theangrytherapist wrote 4 qualities when finding a man who is "Marriage Material" ... I actually love what he wrote. He is talking about finding a man but this can also be used when looking for a girlfriend/wife.
    Read what he wrote below and also tell me what are somethings that you look for in a romantic partner:

    1. Fire in his belly. He has a passion for something. A bone crushing drive to build and share his gifts. If he hasn’t found his purpose(s) or know what they are, then his mission is to actively explore to find out. He has a burning desire to make a dent in the world. And it’s bigger than him. If he is not determined to go somewhere, there will be no ride or journey. Just a lot of sitting in front of the TV and dreaming with a dad bod.

    2. He communicates. On all levels. His wants. His feels. His fears. His dreams. Without communication, it’s nearly impossible to build any kind of healthy sustainable relationship. It is the soil for everything. If he doesn’t have the ability to express himself, he will be doing life around you not with you and there will be lots of cuts on your feet from the eggshells.

    3. He takes ownership. If one never takes ownership for his actions, there is no growth or self awareness. There is only a defensive boy refusing to grow up. Without taking ownership, the fights will be one sided with blame and judgement and you feeling less than. To hold a safe space, one has to have the ability to take ownership. Ownership also means he takes care of himself and his own needs.

    4. He has his own life and opinions. Friends. Hobbies. Favorite kind of Doritos. His life doesn’t hang on yours. He is his own person. He hold your hand. Not your leg. Stands next to you. Not behind or ahead. He’s not living for you. He’s living with you.
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    #love #relationshipadvice #loveadvice #lovequotes #findinglove #onlinedating #dating #lovecoach #lovetherapist #theangrytherapist #loveandrelationships #relationships #dontsettle #findyoursoulmate #dealbreakers #❤
  • 42 1 13 hours ago
  • I’m up to something and I’m not afraid to tell you what it is. 
Love.

It’s all love. 
No really. 
That’s all I want— for you to get the love you want, think about, and prayed for. 
No matter where are you on your love journey, you deserve all the love you can hold and then some.

I want to help get you there.

A little mindset shift, taming of the tongue, and some hard-core faith and belief.

That is all.

#changeyourmindsetchangeyourlife
  • I’m up to something and I’m not afraid to tell you what it is.
    Love.

    It’s all love.
    No really.
    That’s all I want— for you to get the love you want, think about, and prayed for.
    No matter where are you on your love journey, you deserve all the love you can hold and then some.

    I want to help get you there.

    A little mindset shift, taming of the tongue, and some hard-core faith and belief.

    That is all.

    #changeyourmindsetchangeyourlife
  • 57 11 14 hours ago