''Stop asking women when they're getting pregnant...
Because other fertility issues.
Because they can't afford to.
Because mental health.
Because congenital heart defects.
Because they SIMPLY don't want to.
Because its NONE OF YOUR DAMN BUSINESS..... '' 🙅🏻♀️ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
(Reposted from twitter)
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People who are unable to mind their own business are most likely internally miserable. They seek to find faults within others just to make themselves feel better. Offering insight to a friend whose present situation seems distressed can be helpful at times but there is only so much advice you can give without pushing the limits. Even if you don’t agree with what someone else is doing sometimes, you need to take a backseat and let them make their own mistakes. Remember this “Worry about your character and not your reputation, because your character is who you are and your reputation is only what people think of you.” 🙌🏽🙏🏽✌🏽
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#FBF to the day Kaia was signed to her first modeling agency! People kept telling her dad and I to put her into modeling bc she was always the happy smiley baby that would easily go to anyone. So we figured why not give it a try and start a little college fund for her and see where it goes from there and then let her decide if it’s what she wants to continue to do later on. Her dad and I honestly thought she’d be all about sports at this point, considering both our backgrounds, but as time went on it’s been pretty clear to see that @kaiaroseofficial was born for the entertainment industry and lives for and loves every single minute of it!!! So for those mom shamers and trolls out there that have an issue w my child’s passion & career, well you can just kiss my fat 🍑! As a mother my job is to protect, nurture, guide and support my child in all she is, does and loves & if you don’t agree with that it only speaks volumes on the type of person you are and personal issues you have. There’s no need for negativity just bc someone else’s dreams or life doesn’t fit into your unfounded and unwarranted opinions or limited visions. Her smile and happiness are everything to me so we are going to keep doing us. And for those miserable people out there that have to hate on a child I think you all need to seek a LOT of help #sorrynotsorry#keepitpositive
🤷🏼♀️What is happening you guys??? This is such proof that my program, my job, passion, leads to internal TRANSFORMATION!!! My biggest FEAR... public speaking.😲😲😲 (Anyone with me on that?) I had a 45 minute segment to present and by focusing on how much love I had for the 200+ people I was speaking to and how important I felt the topic is, I was able to get through it and actually have FUN with it!!! So weird.
My segment was “minding your own business”! We spend way too much time worrying and focusing on things that are out of our control and not enough on the things we can actually be doing to create change and action in our lives.
Do what scares you and you will GROW!!! #lifelongtransformation#mindyourownbusiness#focusonwhatyoucancontrol#optaviahealthcoach
The best part of growth is when you can look in the mirror and be real with yourself.
What do YOU want
What does YOUR life vision look like
What are YOUR proudest moments
What areas do YOU need to work on
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I LOVE MY MOUSTACHE! This is a post I’ve wanted to do for quite a long time now. Now that we’re coming towards 2020, I think it’s a good time to post this as gender stereotypes and expectations are finally starting to become a thing of the past. I’ve been bullied for this little fella since I was ten years old. I remember being in primary 6 and having to leave class and cry in the bathroom because a boy asked me why I had a moustache and everyone started laughing. Here are some other, more recent things I’ve had said to me (by fellow adults might I add), “What’s the situation with your upper lip?” “Why don’t you do something about your moustache?” “You should really shave that before you go out.” “Why do you have a moustache if you’re a girl?” “Why don’t you just wax it?”... I’ve heard these classics too many times to count. I think some people don’t realise that I’m fully aware of my facial hair, and that they’re not doing me a favour by pointing it out to me. I’ve decided to stop apologising for the way I look. LOADS of girls have dark facial hair and most girls remove it. If that’s the choice you want to make, great! But my choice to look the way I naturally look shouldn’t be questioned or made fun of. A word of advice to people who don’t want to remove their facial hair - That’s great! You look incredible with facial hair, regardless of your gender. Don’t let anyone pressure you into doing anything you don’t want to! A word of advice for anyone who bumps into a female with visible facial hair (or anyone with facial hair for that matter) - don’t ask, don’t question, don’t shame, don’t stare. It’s not your face. Mind your own business 😁 LOVE YOUR FACIAL HAIR PEOPLE ❤️❤️ #loveyourmoustache#femalefacialhair#mindyourownbusiness#loveyourself
44811 hours ago
Na soch sade bekar eh!!
Na shounk sade navabi eh!!
Life da funda eh!!
Bss krr na apna dhanda eh!! #mindyourownbusiness 📝Deep
VOEG SPELREGELS TOE
Toen ik actief begon mijn mindset te trainen vond ik het 'not done' om me KUT te voel, want ik had immers geleerd hoe je deze gedachten veranderd... •
Het gevaar hiervan zit hem in het denken dat mindset een magische pil is. Het is een kwestie van trainen, waardoor je positiever in het leven staat maar het is absoluut geen fixed solution die ALTIJD werkt. De mindere dagen horen er ook bij. Accepteer ze, maar voeg spelregels toe! •
Zo ben ik (nog steeds) een monster tegen 'het einde van de maand'. Ik accepteer dat nu met de spelregel dat ik NIET negatief tegen mijzelf mag praten. Hanteer een positieve affirmatie (ja ook, juist, als je je klote voelt)! •
Hoe blijf jij positief als het ‘tegen’ zit?
First women shouldn’t be allowed to have sex unless they want a baby , even though they shouldn’t be blamed for pregnancy because that a occurrence in the fallopian tubes that cannot be controlled . Women / men attempt to avoid pregnancy using all forms of contraceptions but then you have pro-life people trying to claim that conception are “abortifacients” and they shouldn’t be funded or allowed , women can’t win with the pro-life side unless they follow these rules and regulations that control their life . Then on the other side viagra is funded , Viagra sole purpose is for sexual intercourse , This where the logic is flawed at it’s finest . “ If pregnancy is “Gods will” then so is limp dick” .
All homo sapiens crave for happiness in the form of success . Success induce endorphins in the body which results in optimism and hence happiness. Failures can be pessimistic. One should learn from the failures and think of it as a key to success.
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I’m not so naive to think we have a say in every single thing that occurs in our lives. We don’t get to choose the weather, how many hours are in a day, our parents. We do however, get to choose how we respond to events and circumstances on our life’s road.
Each choice we make has a consequence. One small choice repeated frequently can lead to huge consequences. Ask any smoker.. So when it’s all said and done, we choose whether we have a good attitude or a bad one, whether we have a positive support group or a lousy one, whether we get offended or respect differences, whether we break things or breathe when we are angry, and whether we work for ourselves or someone else.
Every one of those little choices paves your road a little differently in the distance. That road will eventually take you to who you are, how you look, how you feel, what you do, where you live and will ultimately become your present.