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  • Just sat here thinking about this young man, my eldest son, Max. Some of you may know how hard it was for me to build a relationship with him.  Max’s mum and I had a bad relationship and when it hit that inevitable brick wall and flew apart I was punished.  I had my son taken from me, and from time to time, dangled In front of me like a reward when I complied with some demand or other...usually money to be honest.  I digress, In the dark times, and there were a lot. When I felt alone, and that was most of the time.  When I felt ripped apart and couldn’t, or didn’t want to go on...all I wanted to hear was that it would be alright.  So for all of you out there, men and women, feeling broken, alone and in the dark...it WILL be ok, you’re not broken, you’re not alone and the light comes again.  You get them back, and of course you mourn the lost time but what’s to come is so much more important.  What’s to come defines your place as a father or a mother.  It not what’s been that counts, it’s what’s coming that’s important.  When they come back into your life, and they do, it’s for you, not the lies they were told, not the hurt that you were blamed for, it’s you.  That’s because you matter, what you do matters, who you are matters.  So don’t give up, don’t let it consume you, get ready for that day when they put their arms around your neck again and say “dad” or “mum”. It will happen, I promise.  #gotyourback #dadsofinstagram #parentalalienation #worldsbestson #proudeveryday
  • Just sat here thinking about this young man, my eldest son, Max. Some of you may know how hard it was for me to build a relationship with him. Max’s mum and I had a bad relationship and when it hit that inevitable brick wall and flew apart I was punished. I had my son taken from me, and from time to time, dangled In front of me like a reward when I complied with some demand or other...usually money to be honest. I digress, In the dark times, and there were a lot. When I felt alone, and that was most of the time. When I felt ripped apart and couldn’t, or didn’t want to go on...all I wanted to hear was that it would be alright. So for all of you out there, men and women, feeling broken, alone and in the dark...it WILL be ok, you’re not broken, you’re not alone and the light comes again. You get them back, and of course you mourn the lost time but what’s to come is so much more important. What’s to come defines your place as a father or a mother. It not what’s been that counts, it’s what’s coming that’s important. When they come back into your life, and they do, it’s for you, not the lies they were told, not the hurt that you were blamed for, it’s you. That’s because you matter, what you do matters, who you are matters. So don’t give up, don’t let it consume you, get ready for that day when they put their arms around your neck again and say “dad” or “mum”. It will happen, I promise. #gotyourback #dadsofinstagram #parentalalienation #worldsbestson #proudeveryday
  • 159 42 20 hours ago
  • Been feeling frustrated and sad that it’s another year not seeing my son...but after speaking to a friend who was locked up for four months in his attempts to see his children  and then acquitted this month after representing himself at a crown court trial...I felt inspired today to take action...
Maybe it made no difference, but you gotta be the change you want to see and more people need to know what 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐀𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 is...thanks #reedinpartnership for the herbal teas ❤️ #endtheabuse #parentalalienation #protest
  • Been feeling frustrated and sad that it’s another year not seeing my son...but after speaking to a friend who was locked up for four months in his attempts to see his children and then acquitted this month after representing himself at a crown court trial...I felt inspired today to take action...
    Maybe it made no difference, but you gotta be the change you want to see and more people need to know what 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐀𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 is...thanks #reedinpartnership for the herbal teas ❤️ #endtheabuse #parentalalienation #protest
  • 212 46 20 December, 2019

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  • This is where a counter intuitive approach must be taken (not a logical one). Far too many professionals, trained to only report what they see, have fallen into this trap.. the alienator is cool and collected with an agenda, the child backs up the lies and states the targeted parent is mean and angry and the TP comes across as angry/anxious etc therefore reinforcing the narrative. More subject matter experts are needed, more awareness and understanding. “when a child tells you that a parent has harmed them and that is why they do not wish to see them and there is no evidence of that harm but there is evidence of induced psychological splitting in the child’s omnipotent presentation with attendant lack of empathy, your gaze shifts to the parent the child is aligned to.” Karen Woodall .
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#parentalalienation #stopparentalalienation #parentalalienationawareness #parentalalienationsyndrome #narcissism #narcissist #narcissisticabuse
  • This is where a counter intuitive approach must be taken (not a logical one). Far too many professionals, trained to only report what they see, have fallen into this trap.. the alienator is cool and collected with an agenda, the child backs up the lies and states the targeted parent is mean and angry and the TP comes across as angry/anxious etc therefore reinforcing the narrative. More subject matter experts are needed, more awareness and understanding. “when a child tells you that a parent has harmed them and that is why they do not wish to see them and there is no evidence of that harm but there is evidence of induced psychological splitting in the child’s omnipotent presentation with attendant lack of empathy, your gaze shifts to the parent the child is aligned to.” Karen Woodall .
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    #parentalalienation #stopparentalalienation #parentalalienationawareness #parentalalienationsyndrome #narcissism #narcissist #narcissisticabuse
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  • We are pleased to announce our London Screening event has been sold out, we will hopefully be freeing up some tickets at the beginning of March. So, please keep an eye out for newly released tickets. Cardiff venue will be announced shortly! #parentalalienation #london #cardiff
  • We are pleased to announce our London Screening event has been sold out, we will hopefully be freeing up some tickets at the beginning of March. So, please keep an eye out for newly released tickets. Cardiff venue will be announced shortly! #parentalalienation #london #cardiff
  • 1 0 1 hour ago
  • Divorce, separation and break-up of families causes pain all around but can be handled by the parents in a healthy way which benefits the children. Seek therapy for your pain and don’t use your children to heal your wounds. Parents often try to fill the pain they are feeling by creating unhealthy relationships with their children. Causing emotional or physical separation of your child from their other parent as revenge or to fill your need, only hurts your child. Children need and deserve the love of both parents. #parentalalienation #divorce #divorced #childcustody
  • Divorce, separation and break-up of families causes pain all around but can be handled by the parents in a healthy way which benefits the children. Seek therapy for your pain and don’t use your children to heal your wounds. Parents often try to fill the pain they are feeling by creating unhealthy relationships with their children. Causing emotional or physical separation of your child from their other parent as revenge or to fill your need, only hurts your child. Children need and deserve the love of both parents. #parentalalienation #divorce #divorced #childcustody
  • 1 0 2 hours ago
  • Being her part time parent has been so much harder than I thought. I know it was my choice to let her live with them and I am all for parallel parenting but that doesn’t mean I don’t struggle with those decisions. Because the best solution to a hard situation still doesn’t make it good. Sometimes we have to choose between crap, suck, and worst instead of good, better, best. And even though the situation isn’t great, I’ve learned to adapt and shift my perspective. To find gratitude for the challenges that have made me stronger and provided opportunities for growth. So if you ever feel stuck between a rock and a hard place, just know that every time you rise up and push against those challenges you are growing stronger. And eventually you’ll be able to move those obstacles out of your way- not because they’re not there anymore- but because you were always meant to move forward past them in the first place. You just never would have been able to without building your strength.
  • Being her part time parent has been so much harder than I thought. I know it was my choice to let her live with them and I am all for parallel parenting but that doesn’t mean I don’t struggle with those decisions. Because the best solution to a hard situation still doesn’t make it good. Sometimes we have to choose between crap, suck, and worst instead of good, better, best. And even though the situation isn’t great, I’ve learned to adapt and shift my perspective. To find gratitude for the challenges that have made me stronger and provided opportunities for growth. So if you ever feel stuck between a rock and a hard place, just know that every time you rise up and push against those challenges you are growing stronger. And eventually you’ll be able to move those obstacles out of your way- not because they’re not there anymore- but because you were always meant to move forward past them in the first place. You just never would have been able to without building your strength.
  • 263 5 16 hours ago
  • 1989 vs 2000

My sister (baby in the pic) shared the picture on the left with me today. I was alienated from my dad's family for almost 30 years. I can't go back and change things or get back the time lost, but I am growing from the change in my life. 
#parentalalienation #reunited #family
  • 1989 vs 2000

    My sister (baby in the pic) shared the picture on the left with me today. I was alienated from my dad's family for almost 30 years. I can't go back and change things or get back the time lost, but I am growing from the change in my life.
    #parentalalienation #reunited #family
  • 18 0 18 hours ago
  • Just sat here thinking about this young man, my eldest son, Max. Some of you may know how hard it was for me to build a relationship with him.  Max’s mum and I had a bad relationship and when it hit that inevitable brick wall and flew apart I was punished.  I had my son taken from me, and from time to time, dangled In front of me like a reward when I complied with some demand or other...usually money to be honest.  I digress, In the dark times, and there were a lot. When I felt alone, and that was most of the time.  When I felt ripped apart and couldn’t, or didn’t want to go on...all I wanted to hear was that it would be alright.  So for all of you out there, men and women, feeling broken, alone and in the dark...it WILL be ok, you’re not broken, you’re not alone and the light comes again.  You get them back, and of course you mourn the lost time but what’s to come is so much more important.  What’s to come defines your place as a father or a mother.  It not what’s been that counts, it’s what’s coming that’s important.  When they come back into your life, and they do, it’s for you, not the lies they were told, not the hurt that you were blamed for, it’s you.  That’s because you matter, what you do matters, who you are matters.  So don’t give up, don’t let it consume you, get ready for that day when they put their arms around your neck again and say “dad” or “mum”. It will happen, I promise.  #gotyourback #dadsofinstagram #parentalalienation #worldsbestson #proudeveryday
  • Just sat here thinking about this young man, my eldest son, Max. Some of you may know how hard it was for me to build a relationship with him. Max’s mum and I had a bad relationship and when it hit that inevitable brick wall and flew apart I was punished. I had my son taken from me, and from time to time, dangled In front of me like a reward when I complied with some demand or other...usually money to be honest. I digress, In the dark times, and there were a lot. When I felt alone, and that was most of the time. When I felt ripped apart and couldn’t, or didn’t want to go on...all I wanted to hear was that it would be alright. So for all of you out there, men and women, feeling broken, alone and in the dark...it WILL be ok, you’re not broken, you’re not alone and the light comes again. You get them back, and of course you mourn the lost time but what’s to come is so much more important. What’s to come defines your place as a father or a mother. It not what’s been that counts, it’s what’s coming that’s important. When they come back into your life, and they do, it’s for you, not the lies they were told, not the hurt that you were blamed for, it’s you. That’s because you matter, what you do matters, who you are matters. So don’t give up, don’t let it consume you, get ready for that day when they put their arms around your neck again and say “dad” or “mum”. It will happen, I promise. #gotyourback #dadsofinstagram #parentalalienation #worldsbestson #proudeveryday
  • 159 42 20 hours ago
  • #backontrack 🌈😍😘👨‍👧‍👦😘😍🙏
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  • #backontrack 🌈😍😘👨‍👧‍👦😘😍🙏
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    "If you want the #rainbow , you gotta put up with the rain." Dolly Parton
  • 1 1 17 February, 2020