Before you commit to a relationship with someone, ask yourself this question: “Would they make a good ex?” If you were to hurt them (end the relationship because it was the right thing to do) how would they react?
If we were to inflict CLEAN emotional pain on them, would they hate you and scar your name?
We find it’s important to reverse engineer a relationship before beginning a relationship.
How would this person be as an ex spouse or partner? How would they be as a co-parent? Would we still enjoy running into this person years later because there is still so much love and respect for who they are as a human being and how they show up in the world?
Would they lead with grace and kindness and be civil, or would they lead with hate and anger and try to damage our character and spread stories about us to try and protect themselves?
This important question asks us to look beyond the attraction, romance and butterflies of a new love and make contact with the imperfect human behind those new love lenses.
Do we love them as a human being. Not simply as someone who makes us feel excited and allows us to escape reality.
Do they have high quality character? Do we love them as a human being? Are they trustworthy and someone of integrity? Do they possess grace and kindness deep in their soul?
No matter if the romantic love between you lasts or not, you won’t regret your choice to love them for the time you did, as they were a high quality human being who was worth taking the leap of faith with.
In love or in parting, we trust them to honour our heart, to lead with grace, even if in pain.
When we fall in love with the reality of the human being in front of us, this is when love is always worth it.
So ask yourself, would this person make a good ex?
If the answer is a resounding YES, take the leap.
If it’s not a resounding YES, do not proceed, because it’s not actually real love.
Hoy hay luna llena me hace recordar que tú eres la que me llena, de pronto recuerdo que eres tan bella es que de verdad en mi dejaste una huella que no se borra tan fácil mi doncella, quererte no es fácil pero es porque mi corazón está frágil y no quiero ser un mártir a partir de ahora no quiero molestarte pero se me hace muy díficil no mirarte y como no admirarte si lograste que mi imaginación se fuera hasta Marte como me encantaría conquistarte y que algún día llegues a amarme... -Soy Marcos Lima
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Well, it’s been quite a year! So much has happened but you, Max, are the best thing that happened to me. Happy one year anniversary baby! @maxinette_ks
P.S. if it wasn’t for her, I literally would have done nothing but work. She’s the cure to my workaholism❤️...wait, and workout 🏋️♂️ . Nothing but work and workout!
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Boundaries help us avoid the crash. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
You know, the one where you stop going to the gym as much,
hit snooze more than you want,
and loose your temper quicker than you'd care to admit. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Boundaries are there to help you avoid the life-crash you know you want to avoid. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
There will always be resistance to setting these boundaries because they require hard conversations.
In order to have the boundaries, we might have to face a parent,
stand up to a partner,
and risk loosing a relationship. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
But in the words of @timferriss "your success is determined by the number of uncomfortable conversations you're willing to have."
So go have the tough conversation.
Set the firm boundary.
And be the man (or woman) you know you're capable of becoming.
Dis bitch is ANNOYING and she wonder why no one likes her sis YOU ARE UNSTABLE and your PETTY and that’s why we only need you for one reason cause after that YOR USELESS +++++++ we helped you when WE DIDNT HAVE TO when YOU couldn’t get over a situation YOUR ANNOYING
This is a PSA: Babyyyy you cannot steal another woman’s man or husband. Are you a kidnapper? I decided to bless y’all with a little drip 💧 to drank. Lord, stop going around telling folks you stole another woman’s husband or man. That’s not cute. #drippqueen lol 😂