Every time I think of how misogynistic our society is towards women. I think of all the times men in my life have told me I should just live your own life. Also, don’t worry about providing for the woman in your life. She has has own let her figure it out .You don’t need to make plans for the woman you’re with. Just do whatever you want to do and let her follow your lead. Don’t have an active plan in place. You don’t need to worry about her (she’s gonna leave anyway.) It serves as a constant reminder of what not to do. I’ve been firm on this stance for a few years but couldn’t actively pursue it. However, I have learned one thing. The woman with whom I give my last name to will be my building block, My foundation for future success, The woman I come to when I’m in need because her nourishment will restore my soul. You see so many men out here are failing because their core values have gone completely away from meeting the needs of the woman in their lives. I cannot stress this enough but when a man realizes he has no more time to waste those games stop. This is where I’m at now I don’t have time to keep playing games hoping that playing the field will benefit me. So let this be made clear as well. Ladies when a man wants to build a future with you it will be at the core of everything he does. Therefore, you will remain the center and achieving greatness along with you will be the foundation.
And how can we hold onto that if something we thought we needed or wanted comes to what seems like an end?
What impels us to keep on growing
And what restores the hope to press on when so much challenges our faith and knowing?
Could it be the very source of our lives steers us each moment ...time after time?
So that even amidst what seems like an end there is renewal and reminding of Love and Life infinite?
No matter what has seemingly come to an end... your being and the good you love are about is forever dear friend.... Dig deep
Keep thought on the right now
Tend to your heart and feed her somehow.... Ask : what do I need to feel safe secure loved and able to face this day
And stop at nothing to put those pieces in place